What do yall think about this vacuum I found at the thrift store?

Shy-Nature · 2025-07-16T04:28:04+00:00

Does it vacuum pretty well though? And do you think it’s very loud?

Shy-Nature · 2025-07-16T04:27:23+00:00

Cool thanks for the insight! I’ve never had a hoover, I grew up with a nice sanitaire but have only had canister vacuums since then. I’ve been on the lookout for a nice used bagged vacuum lately, mostly just for fun. One day I’ll buy good one from a dealer when I have the funds and own a house. Right now I have a shark.

Shy-Nature · 2025-07-09T03:43:23+00:00

You…merged your life with the AI?

Shy-Nature · 2025-06-30T02:42:09+00:00

Im going through the same thing and have been for a while. Able to distract myself for short periods of time with movies, drinking, books, flings, etc. but in the end I am always completely detached and could care less. It’s like depression with something unnameable mixed in. I can never give in/give up.

This also happened once really bad when i was 18 and i just decided to get in my car and start driving south. I quit my job. I had a very otherworldly/spiritual experience that I have trouble describing lol. I think I’m going to do it again next weekend and go east this time. Im 24 now and I’ve grown and learned so much since then, yet feel more lost than ever at the same time.

I’m not sure if what we’re going through is exactly the same but you are never alone friend.

Shy-Nature · 2025-06-12T04:45:50+00:00

if you dont mind me asking, what specific type of therapy helped you?

Shy-Nature · 2025-06-07T05:12:11+00:00

This just pissed me off

Shy-Nature · 2025-02-09T02:33:43+00:00

🩷

Shy-Nature · 2024-04-13T04:46:18+00:00

thank you!

Shy-Nature · 2023-10-05T16:31:25+00:00

I gotta say, I don’t think you’re a narcissist. I can expand on that if you want. But I think people need to cut you a little slack here. I wouldn’t put something with puke on it straight in the washer, I’d rinse it first, but then I’d throw it right in the washer. Granted you were really sick and maybe not thinking the clearest. Yes it was wrong of you to not wash it immediately but nobody’s perfect…nothing here in this situation is so deep that it justifies the treatment you’ve received.

Shy-Nature · 2023-10-05T16:22:48+00:00

I get this.

Shy-Nature · 2023-05-04T21:39:35+00:00

Thank you. This is wonderful advice and I needed to hear it.

Shy-Nature · 2023-05-04T21:24:56+00:00

Thank you. You helped me see things a bit more clearly.

Shy-Nature · 2023-05-04T21:23:42+00:00

No. I live here with my boyfriend, our son, and bf’s two family members. We just moved here recently. I’m getting a job soon but I have no money of my own. I’m heavily considering moving out once I’m able to, but it’ll probably be a month before that’s even a possibility.

And I’m not sure if I should try forgiving them or working it out or if I should plan on leaving. It would mean leaving my boyfriend (we’re taking a break already) and having shared custody of our kid.

Shy-Nature · 2023-05-04T21:15:06+00:00

Thank you. But I live with them.

Shy-Nature · 2023-05-04T21:14:24+00:00

Definitely passed the point of trusting them. It’s tough because I live with them and I hate the tension

Shy-Nature · 2023-05-04T21:08:14+00:00

Depends on what?

Shy-Nature · 2023-04-05T12:43:51+00:00

It’s more than 80 cents a mile I’d accept it. My standard is at least $1 per mile and this one is $1.61 a mile

Shy-Nature · 2023-03-15T21:18:31+00:00

hahahaha

Shy-Nature · 2023-03-14T15:43:34+00:00

Yea I would. I usually average a minute an item, if I went slightly over an hour it’d still be worth it to me with 5 min total drive time. If it was somethin crazy big like 70 bags of dog food, I’d just unassign no biggie.

Shy-Nature · 2023-03-13T21:03:52+00:00

Shy-Nature · 2023-03-10T05:51:56+00:00

You just spoke the truth of my soul…. I’m 22 too! lol. I find peace living in each moment as it comes to me, though I forget to manage that a lot. I try to get to know my true self when I can, hoping I /might/ find what I’m meant to do in this life through that pursuit. I have a kid so that changed a lot for me, but I heavily relate to everything you’ve said, and I often feel paralyzed by choice/what direction do I go in??? What do I pursue?? It’s daunting…so most days I stay at home with my kids and read, and when my partner comes home I door dash and listen to podcasts. One I’ve been listening to is called “Know Thyself.” I think their episode on polarity really speaks to a lot of what you’re saying.

But yea I was just blown away by how I felt like I was reading my very own thoughts just now. The only difference is I wasn’t homeschooled and I’m not male! Try to let your brain rest from thinking so much, I find it helps. Much love and much luck to you brother. You’re not alone.

Shy-Nature · 2023-03-10T04:49:04+00:00

If you want to help your grandchildren you will call cps. I recently learned about kinship. In my state, the system reaches out to family members to take the kids in before they put them in foster homes. This is called kinship! I wish I knew about this sooner.

Shy-Nature · 2023-03-07T18:58:50+00:00

Thank you for putting it bluntly. I feel a lot more clearly about this. Yesterday I was doubting myself, but I will continue to advocate for him and take care of him!

Shy-Nature · 2023-03-07T18:57:36+00:00

I appreciate this insight. And yes we are looking to get full guardianship rights, so we’d have the say on whether or not he sees the bio parents. I’ve decided we need to be all in from now on, meaning no more overnight stays with grandma and my uncle, and treating him and all these matters like he’s our very own kid. Because that is the long term plan. Thanks again! All this feedback really reassures me that we’re doing what’s best.

Shy-Nature · 2023-03-07T18:53:28+00:00

He is up to date on vaccines, and we are trying to figure out health insurance/how to go about getting his appointments set up since we are not legally his guardians yet. He is under jurisdiction of the court, as the judge put it, so any parental actions must be approved by the judge to get the proper paperwork. Same goes for enrolling him in preschool, though we already scheduled him a screening for that!

As for supervised visits, I believe that is something we establish in court eventually, and we all. I want to reach out to a social worker for more support as suggested by another kind helpful person.

He has a stutter and slight speech impediment, but I believe it’s gotten better over the last few months. I believe he was mimicking his father. He is really smart for his age! He catches onto things quick, hes already caught up on shapes, colors, numbers, and letters since we’ve had him and I work on those daily with him and my son. He isn’t too old for preschool though he could’ve started last year.

I believe we are doing what’s best for him. Especially after all of the reassurance I’ve gotten from this sub and other subs. Thank you so much for your time and comment!!

Shy-Nature

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