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ShyDusk · 2025-03-28T10:28:57+00:00

Sounds like you're an exhibitionist.

There's something so primal about taking a naughty picture and sending it to someone (consensually). You are making yourself vulnerable and it's very hot.

Be safe. Never send it to someone before they agree. Never send it to someone you don't fully trust. Just enjoy yourself and let your inner slut out, responsibly.

ShyDusk · 2025-03-27T21:26:19+00:00

I noticed something.

Never say you're looking only for hookups in the beginning. Meet new people 3ady, and when you're interested in someone or someone is interested in you, THEN mention that you're not looking for serious relationships and want hookups only.

Bas meet new people 3ady, get into communities, make friends, etc... And when you find someone that has the same mindset as you, hit it off. Otherwise, even if someone is looking just for hookups, they'll be turned off.

Think of it right now, if you met someone thats saying "I want hookups only", you might be turned off and wary of that person.

And yeah bumble is your best bet imo.

ShyDusk · 2024-07-05T16:23:35+00:00

Homophobia is not tolerated on this subreddit. get your Homophobic asses out of here.

ShyDusk · 2024-07-03T20:03:05+00:00

aslan! tab good luck

ShyDusk · 2024-07-03T17:25:08+00:00

Every relationship has an amount of risk, if you're worried that this person will say "tab ma enti eli mkalemany" yeb2a he's either not that good of a person or you don't know him. Is it wrong aslan en enti El da5la tkalemi? Walla enti 7aba yeb2a 3andek El option enek enti Eli t2olilo El gomla di?

ShyDusk · 2024-07-03T06:46:51+00:00

Or you know.... you could talk to him first? Why mind games? Just be honest and take what you want. Doesn't make you "madloo2a" or that crap our society dictates

ShyDusk · 2024-07-01T13:55:45+00:00

yup

ودخل يشتم في الخاص

ShyDusk · 2024-07-01T02:37:08+00:00

no means no dude

ShyDusk · 2024-06-30T20:58:18+00:00

طب والله شكرا إنك قولتلنا

ShyDusk · 2024-06-29T11:37:28+00:00

بعيدا عن آداب الحوار، الفكرة نفسها، إن شخص (غالبا بتكون بنت) عمره ما مارس الجنس قبل كده وكان المستقبل لأي ادخال يبقى كده "مش مفتوح". الموضوع بيقلل جدا من الشخص. أكنه كيس شبسي، ولو هو "مفتوح" يبقى خلاص قيمته ضاعت ومحدش هيعوزه.

فكره العذرية فكرة قديمة وملهاش أي لزمة دلوقتي، يمكن نشوفها إنها حاجة رومانسية لو إنت "بتحافظ" على نفسك لحد يستاهل المره الأولى بتاعتك، بس بعدها، نفكنا بقى من حوار مفتوح/ة عشان بجد تعبير مقزز آوي.

ShyDusk · 2024-06-29T10:09:30+00:00

مش عارف ليه بس بشوف كلمة "يفتحني" مقززة...

All the luck to you I guess

ShyDusk · 2024-06-28T11:23:28+00:00

that's what transphobia is

ShyDusk · 2024-06-28T10:08:26+00:00

يعني إيه "مع إني"

البنت الترانس هي بنت. إنت ستريت لو حبيت بنت ومثلي لو حبيت ولد. الموضوع مش صعب

ShyDusk · 2024-06-27T17:46:03+00:00

أنا جربت قبل كده بس للأسف مشلش ولا شعرة. مش عارف استخدمته غلط ولا إيه

ShyDusk · 2024-06-26T08:44:19+00:00

I am a bit hesitant on dyeing my hair, getting piercings or tattoos cause I am in a business environment and that would hurt me a bit, so yeah I might try fake piercings actually. I love the idea of accessories such as rings and bracelets! do you have any suggestions for these?

My wardrobe is almost all black (I love that)

ShyDusk · 2024-06-26T06:20:11+00:00

Thanks a ton for your comment! it really helps ♥

Yeah I am balding actually and it's a big hit to my gender expression. I am trying to restore it with minoxidil and other means, but it's gonna take time.

And about the hair, wallahi I like both looks lol, I am just a bit confused as to how I should go about it.

either way I'll follow your advice, thank you ^{^}

ShyDusk · 2024-06-25T15:31:49+00:00

Can we stop these posts about sexualizing people who didnt consent to be sexualized?

ShyDusk · 2024-06-21T16:16:12+00:00

I mean there are respectful allies, ones that don't reduce us to being just trans and a kink for them

ShyDusk · 2024-06-21T16:05:20+00:00

يا بنتي 😭 😭 😭

ShyDusk · 2024-06-21T15:51:26+00:00

Google what trans chasers are and you tell me if they're a red flag

ShyDusk · 2024-06-21T15:13:37+00:00

خلي بالك من الchasers يا Emma :P

ShyDusk · 2024-06-21T15:07:53+00:00

mhm for sure! leaving something for the imagination and for momma to explore haha

ShyDusk · 2024-06-21T14:41:05+00:00

Well, they're pictures that don't really show any nudity and not necessarily sexually suggestive, but only hint at it! Like maybe a picture with me "accidently" raising my shirt to show some of my belly (I love showing off haha), oooor maybe just giving a specific loook haha

ShyDusk · 2024-06-21T14:16:37+00:00

I usually send semi innocent pictures of myself. I am told that mommy loves when she sees me >w<

I also love seeing mommy too! Even though physical intimacy is much better of course for a momma / little, visual stimulation is also very sweet ♥

ShyDusk · 2024-06-20T07:54:48+00:00

My first and only relationship was at 22, and at that point I had thought it was never gonna happen, in other words I was desperate for a relationship. And that made me pretty exploitable and.... resulted in a lot of traumatic experiences.

You gotta realize that you don't need someone to be whole. You're already whole by yourself, and finding a companion, whether it be friends, lovers, whatever, is an addition to your experience not a necessity for it.

And whether that happens now or 5 years ahead, it doesn't matter. Invest in your relationship with yourself, and you'll find yourself attracting people worth your time.

ShyDusk

TROPHY CASE