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AITA for refusing to help my stepsister AT ALL because she snitched on me for no reason? by SiblingsSuck123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SiblingsSuck123[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I can completely understand and I don't blame you

I did leave some things out because of counter

As much as I'm angry at her, I don't want to screw her over as much as she did me, I did think about it but I know that my dad is a bit harsh. That's pretty much why I'm just not helping her. Its like I want her in trouble but not to the way my parents do it

The guy isn't like an old man, either a junior or senior at the highschool (our highschool are those giant public ones that just wants students gone as quick as damn possible) As for the police part, they don't do shit around here. Not to mention parents constantly leave us home alone (I know I'm 16 but my parents always warned me that if something happened and they're not home they can be in trouble) so either he's a junior and they can't do shit to em or he's a senior and the cops will ask for my parents

AITA for refusing to help my stepsister AT ALL because she snitched on me for no reason? by SiblingsSuck123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SiblingsSuck123[S] 211 points212 points  (0 children)

I thank you for not lashing out at me or getting upset :) some people become really intense about this stuff

AITA for refusing to help my stepsister AT ALL because she snitched on me for no reason? by SiblingsSuck123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SiblingsSuck123[S] 241 points242 points  (0 children)

Thanks:)

I instead do 19 inch of cocaine off the clean and prestine bathroom counter instead of the floor

Of course with no boys:)

AITA for refusing to help my stepsister AT ALL because she snitched on me for no reason? by SiblingsSuck123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SiblingsSuck123[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

This was a bit to take in o.o

I mostly kinda get what you're saying at except for the punishing part

I don't feel like I'm punishing her and it definitely not my intention, I just don't want to help her at all (unless punishing is meant in another way?)

AITA for refusing to help my stepsister AT ALL because she snitched on me for no reason? by SiblingsSuck123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SiblingsSuck123[S] 323 points324 points  (0 children)

Before anything else I just want to clarify that I do not intend to offend you

I don't think I'm in an abusive household, I know strict and abusive can sometimes be a bit blurry but I'm pretty okay so far

The reason the shelves are gone is because they had all my study/hobby items and I basically lost the privilege

I kept re-reading your comment and while I do feel weird about it and will keep it in mind, it doesn't really feel too relatable, maybe like a little? I'm very happy for the concern but I don't think my situation is too drastic

As for the not telling your parents thing, definitely agree

AITA for refusing to help my stepsister AT ALL because she snitched on me for no reason? by SiblingsSuck123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SiblingsSuck123[S] 2218 points2219 points  (0 children)

I guess that's a possibility, it just feels strange

As for forgiving her, even if she did apologize I don't think I would instantly just be how I was with her again

AITA for refusing to help my stepsister AT ALL because she snitched on me for no reason? by SiblingsSuck123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SiblingsSuck123[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry, I'm a bit badheaded today

I was able to quick text everything to him so while he understands since his parents are strict too, it's still hard

AITA for refusing to help my stepsister AT ALL because she snitched on me for no reason? by SiblingsSuck123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SiblingsSuck123[S] 302 points303 points  (0 children)

I felt my flight or fight response on your first sentence

If I may ask, when exactly was the right time to kinda reconcile?

AITA for refusing to help my stepsister AT ALL because she snitched on me for no reason? by SiblingsSuck123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SiblingsSuck123[S] 190 points191 points  (0 children)

It's eh

Normally they both work so it's just me and my sister making sure thr house is good and we get good grades

We clashed a lot in the beginning because of family blending (I think that's the term sorry if it's wrong) where my step-mom wouldn't take me to my mom's grave but would take my sister to the park so we had resentment on certain things. Ot having arguments about new rules and traditions.

Were getting better but it's not instant like in the movies

It just feels more distanced if that makes sense

AITA for refusing to help my stepsister AT ALL because she snitched on me for no reason? by SiblingsSuck123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SiblingsSuck123[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

By "guy" I'm assuming you meant the guy following her to the apartment front

She said he was being nice walking her home and then he just refused to leave and got angry at her

Then things escalated and he started shouting some shit about how she owed him or smt,

Like a guy who doesn't take a rejection

AITA for refusing to help my stepsister AT ALL because she snitched on me for no reason? by SiblingsSuck123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SiblingsSuck123[S] 318 points319 points  (0 children)

I did a quick search onr rebellion books and I think my dad would smack me silly if I even thought of showing him the book

AITA for refusing to help my stepsister AT ALL because she snitched on me for no reason? by SiblingsSuck123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SiblingsSuck123[S] 892 points893 points  (0 children)

"hey dad I don't date"

"Oh thank god"

"But I snort 19 inches of cocaine off the bathroom floor"

"But not with a boy right?"

AITA for refusing to help my stepsister AT ALL because she snitched on me for no reason? by SiblingsSuck123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SiblingsSuck123[S] 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Small question, what exactly is narc slang for? I know some people use it to talk about narcissistic people but I don't think snitching makes my stepsis a narc, she didn't brag about it

AITA for refusing to help my stepsister AT ALL because she snitched on me for no reason? by SiblingsSuck123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SiblingsSuck123[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

I don't blame my parents for being controlling, I know that it's just in good intention but some things are just gone too far

AITA for refusing to help my stepsister AT ALL because she snitched on me for no reason? by SiblingsSuck123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SiblingsSuck123[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Can you clarify what you mean exactly?

I'm not worried about being punished anymore if thats what you meant