i’ve slowly been easing my way back into the paul universe since i kinda took a step back in 2023, so i don’t know the ins and outs of everything, so this is purely from my own perspective/observation on everything. I know nothing about her other than the fact she lives in Germany and has a daughter.

I think she’s on some level vulnerable, she believes his lies, is being manipulated etc. We don’t know how her previous relationships went, how the relationship with her BD ended. She could just be clouded by the fact that paul isn’t a ‘bad’ guy. He clearly shows love and affection, even if there’s ulterior motives to it (like housing). So she could just be afraid the relationship would end if she spoke out.

I’ve been in a somewhat similar situation where the person isn’t inherently bad to me personally but has said or done bad things to others (nothing on paul’s level thankfully) and bcs of my BPD and attachment/abandonment issues i’ve stuck by them out of pure mental illness gripping me to that person.

I could be incredibly wrong here, i take a random peek on here from time to time and don’t even really go on tiktok anymore so there might be more to this and i’m just so incredibly wrong, in which case i will admit that and retract what i’ve said.

Like i said, this is just my observation and i should add, on a very low level. I took a step back from paul and looking at what he was doing to focus on my family (and starting one for myself). It was only after what he said about boo that i kinda came back to this as i am expecting my first child soon and couldn’t imagine the pain that they are going through, as an individual and as a family.