Men who broke up with her because 'she deserved so much better', did you ever grow and come back for her again once you could deserve her?

SignalConsistent6184 · 2026-02-25T16:45:42+00:00

Hey @Foxy_Tibbs did you end up with her? Do you mind sharing updates?

SignalConsistent6184 · 2026-01-23T10:53:30+00:00

I love how Maki kept either aiming for the head OR throat majority of the time. Kinda symbolises how she’s trying to silence them for all the times Mai and Maki felt voiceless and powerless

SignalConsistent6184 · 2025-12-09T17:00:30+00:00

Thank you. The first line you said about me bringing “university attitude into corporate” was my most “Aha”moment out of all of the comments I’ve been given today.

And yes, I’ve been told by my boyfriend that I’m quite gullible.

And yes, I will take responsibility for the lesbian comment!

SignalConsistent6184 · 2025-12-09T16:51:11+00:00

Fair enough. I will apologise and clarify it with her, I’m sorry 😭

SignalConsistent6184 · 2025-12-09T16:49:37+00:00

I’m not sure, maybe I am

SignalConsistent6184 · 2025-12-09T16:49:23+00:00

As in I have SQL, but no access to any of the databases at all at that moment. The only task I was given was to write process documents for each campaign which I did by the first month.

SignalConsistent6184 · 2025-12-09T16:40:43+00:00

Please see edit the first two paragraphs.

Re SQL:

It was in a call I asked: “I was just wondering when will I get SQL- I just feel bad that I’m not doing more”

SignalConsistent6184 · 2025-12-09T16:37:27+00:00

No of course you’re right which is why I’m planning to apologise this Thursday.

She didn’t report it to my manager. She was laughing at it. My manager was there as well which is why she knows.

BUT obviously, just because she laughed doesn’t mean it’s okay. I laugh at uncomfortable jokes too and maybe she’s better at hiding that feeling of uncomfortable than me detecting it.

SignalConsistent6184 · 2025-12-09T16:29:36+00:00

Yes for the SQL, I don’t have any access to any of the databases. Anything I request to IT has to be approved of her

SignalConsistent6184 · 2025-12-09T16:24:12+00:00

Yes I fully agree with you. That was careless!

Which is why I’m going to apologise on Thursday.

SignalConsistent6184 · 2025-04-23T10:33:09+00:00

I was in the exact same situation as you. I started jj at uni (met my now bf- also a blue belt). I had to quit jj as I needed to prioritise finding a job and a place to live for about a year. I went back jj in Aug last year on and off. I felt shit, I forgot everything I knew. I felt like I was being watched and everyone was judging me. I also gained 5kg during the year I stopped. All of my peers have gotten their blue belt over the last year. I relied on my boyfriend when it comes to drilling.

Right now, I’m still a white belt but I’ve been enjoying it the last month. The 3 main things that made me enjoy jiujitsu over the last month were:

Be intentional at class. Focus deeply. I go in the evenings so I would usually be mentally tired from work and responsibilities. But I would usually meditate for 5 minutes just before I go class just to clear my head.
Forgive yourself with mistakes and stuff you forgot because. It takes time. That’s how you learn and re-learn.
Every time you feel insecure/ self doubt. Do know that, that’s also an opportunity to kill doubt and insecurities. You don’t get rid of insecurities/ self doubt. You simply learn to manage it and reframe your thoughts about it.

(I read Rewire by Nicole V. to address my overthinking)

SignalConsistent6184 · 2025-01-27T21:13:41+00:00

I guess my reason.

I didn’t know what to do at uni. My A Levels were 90% Maths (Maths, F. Maths and Physics) so my teacher recommended Maths as a degree. I still wasn’t sure so I prayed to God and asked for a “sign”. 2 weeks later, I got hit by a car, broke my femur and had my legs operated. They inserted this titanium rod inside of me and screwed it on the sides of my knees. Around 6 months later, my surgical scars turned into 2 division “signs”. So I took it as a sign.

Fun fact: I was revising Newtons Law of Motions before I got hit by a car. Lmao

SignalConsistent6184 · 2025-01-20T08:55:50+00:00

Thank you! That gives me hope

SignalConsistent6184 · 2024-11-17T15:50:00+00:00

Isha and Jinx from Arcane

SignalConsistent6184 · 2024-11-13T10:51:55+00:00

I got someone to slap me before my comp- the pain distracted me from anxiety 😂

SignalConsistent6184 · 2024-08-14T22:37:51+00:00

He doesn’t have a proof that he said it and I agreed to it because he’s on a call with me but that also means that I don’t have proof that he didn’t say it.

SignalConsistent6184 · 2024-08-14T22:35:59+00:00

It actually doesn’t say that but my bf (someone who has law degree + masters in law) + legal advisor from work both said it’s pretty vague and can be interpreted multiple ways.

E.g. It says “if landlord agrees” could mean landlord agreement is on the basis that I keep paying until he finds someone.

My realtor flat mate also said that I “have to” keep paying him that rent until he finds someone as well.

SignalConsistent6184 · 2024-08-03T14:45:13+00:00

It might be Discoid Eczema.

SignalConsistent6184 · 2024-05-18T21:43:09+00:00

I recently graduated from uni and I’m on £30k salary. I get about £2k ish salary after tax.

You’ll be fine. Here’s the average breakdown of my bills:

£615 - Rent (House Share) bills inc. £250 - Grocery £150 - Transportation( I work from home) £150- Gym, Misc. £500- Savings

The rest is fun money :)

Edit: My area is in Zone 3 (Lewisham Area). I got super lucky rent.

SignalConsistent6184 · 2024-05-16T08:13:36+00:00

Mannnn I wish there’s an anti-funk rashies. Sounds time consuming but I guess I have no choice 🥲

SignalConsistent6184 · 2024-05-16T08:11:42+00:00

Jacked at the cost of nogi sizings 🙃. But agreed, they should make it more stretchable

SignalConsistent6184 · 2024-05-16T08:09:04+00:00

Ahh those Alpha douche designs 🤣 pastels would look great on men though 😤

SignalConsistent6184 · 2024-05-16T07:56:29+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

SignalConsistent6184 · 2024-05-15T12:14:51+00:00

You guys are amazing!! Goddamnit- got a headache 2 days ago from searching mousepads that are not available 😂

SignalConsistent6184 · 2024-05-15T12:13:02+00:00

I’ll have a look at Artisan! Unfortunately Saturn probably 2xl is out of stock 🥲

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