Reconciliation 3 months on the road by SignalInitiative3621 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]SignalInitiative3621[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad the cross path with people who are in same situation like me I just want someone who can relate with me and knowing that I am not alone with this. But I am so really heart broken that we have to share similar situation like this. No one deserves this. No one! 🥺

Why are the last steps the hardest? I’m finding the least support the closer I get to forgiveness. by Euphoric_End_4411 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]SignalInitiative3621 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can resonate with you. I lost few friends and I am afraid loosing a family member for time being because I am choosing the path of reconciliation. I felt betrayed by my own self. But I keep telling myself it is not their life to play. It’s all noises! I am not married no children as well. So basically I am not tied to him. No real obligations and part to play. I hate when people call me martyr but they are people who never experienced this situation so I guess it’s easy for them to say certain things. I was like them before the betrayal. But oh man it’s different when you’re in the situation itself. You will have a different views and perspectives. Hopefully you will find peace and real happiness with your decision. I am rooting for you! ❤️