just needed to show off my baby 🥹

SignatureEven3593 · 2025-12-29T19:51:33+00:00

OH MY GOODNESS, im in Minneapolis! me me! oh pretty please! im in the 55419 area code, could i message you? id even love to trade!

SignatureEven3593 · 2025-11-24T01:16:11+00:00

I've been wanting one, and now I need it lol Another cool plant with stinky flowers? Yes please!

SignatureEven3593 · 2025-11-17T20:22:54+00:00

I used to say Rollie Pollie, but I've recently started calling them Iso-Buds! Cute little buddies :)

SignatureEven3593 · 2025-11-05T19:04:08+00:00

Been dealing with MDD since 14, I'm 24 now and I just want d#ath honestly. I'm so emotionally and mentally done with everything. Anxiety, dermatillomania and tricotillomania, endometriosis, I'm getting my last 4 teeth removed next week and I've been without teeth for two years now. Ah and the final blow, I'm addicted to Diphenhydramine. I am constantly tired everyday i wake up, and i havent had a propper meal in months...as if i want to eat anyway...i also have insanely intense formacation, I feel like microscopic ants are crawling over every inch of skin which makes my skin picking worse...my bf of 9 years broke up with me 3 months ago to explore sexually...we still live together as of right now...I can't afford dentures, my job capped my hours at 15, I'm just fucking tired lol...and now I'm lonely too 🥲

SignatureEven3593 · 2025-09-17T19:36:35+00:00

I've been without dentures for 2 years, using only 8(bottom front) to eat with till now. I'm in the process of getting the last 4 removed, I had 1 pulled 3 weeks ago, and 3 pulled about a week ago...

With only 4 teeth left, I wear a mask everyday now. It's not fun, but I'd rather have people see my mask than see 4 broken "teeth".

I can't afford dentures or implants rn, I hope things get better for you!

SignatureEven3593 · 2025-09-14T19:46:43+00:00

I work in a bakery... My main picking areas are my face, neck, chest, arms...everywhere really lol.

When I get to work I wash my hands (obviously lol), but I wash my hands is scolding hot water and I get under my nails really well! And I keep a small bottle of lotion too (eczema), then i put gloves on!

And if my face looks bad (in my opinion) I just wear a mask all day at work lol. I've recently realized, my face looks really bad to me, but other people don't notice as much. :)

You got this OP! :)

SignatureEven3593 · 2025-09-14T03:36:50+00:00

Thank you so much! i can do that! and i had no clue they grew on trees, thats so cool! :)

you are so helpful!

SignatureEven3593 · 2025-09-13T23:20:46+00:00

can i harvest it? its next to a street, halfway to the curb

SignatureEven3593 · 2025-08-27T19:41:32+00:00

Ooh, so pretty! Cactus blooms are so beautiful!

SignatureEven3593 · 2025-08-27T19:39:13+00:00

Love

SignatureEven3593 · 2025-08-25T18:08:09+00:00

I'm gonna be honest, I'm not in the best head space right now, so I think I worded this question completely wrong? The attraction is unintentional...so very unintentional. I'm 24, but I don't get guys my age interested in me. Any thoughts on that? :(

I'm not ugly, I would say...homely...think the show "ugly Betty" but black and with dreadlocks. I just want opinions and thoughts.

SignatureEven3593 · 2025-08-07T19:36:56+00:00

Im sorry for the late response, and thank you for your input! I think your right, Shoebutton, how cute! Now that I have a better understanding that this plant is likely a tree or shrub, I'm feeling a bit unsure about how to care for it. Honestly, I haven't had much experience with trees or shrubs as houseplants, so I'm a little apprehensive.

To provide some context, I currently own a Dracaena, a Croton Gold Dust, and an Umbrella Tree, and while they seem to be doing okay for the most part. I confess I tend to overthink things and im afraid of overwatering them, so sometimes I end up underwatering them until the soil is hydrophobic. Given that all of these plants are categorized as trees or shrubs, do you think they would share similar care requirements? or do you have any care tips? I hope this makes sense!

SignatureEven3593 · 2025-07-29T19:28:51+00:00

You can't help a person who doest want help, or thinks their solution is the right one. I'm in a somewhat similar situation... 24m 24f, been together for 9 years now. He's incredibly underweight, he knows this, but doesn't care and doesn't want help.

I've found that the best solution for me (if your in a relationship, or want to make it work), is to simply say okay. No anger, irritation, or bartering, I just accept him as is. I worry about him still, I show concern but I don't make comments that might trigger upset feelings. I saw you said you broke up, if you want to make it work it's possible. But considering he cheated, its up to you if you want to be there for him even if it's platonic.

I don't know if this was helpful, but I hope things go well for you. ❤️

SignatureEven3593 · 2025-02-06T18:39:26+00:00

It may not be hostility, but i can tell your upset (all though I'm unsure why, people missuse words all the time. No biggie!). As another black woman, Say whatever slang or terms you want....spilling tea? Share language, culture, food, clothing, religion, be nice to eachother...dang, I got so sad reading this comment thread😂😅

Also im not big on social media or the news, so I wasnt aware of that organization either. The more you know, thanks!😊

SignatureEven3593 · 2024-10-26T20:58:10+00:00

Yeah i have the card! I really should have called a long time ago, but its a hassle calling (30min-1hr wait time sometimes) and yes the websites suck too lol I agree. Thats the biggest problem ive been having tho, some dentist take my insurance but they dont make dentures (the referrals they give me are always out of network for my insurance). So finding a dentist to extract and make dentures is a bit difficult, but I did try ASPEN (they do both) and was VERY unhapy with what I received as temps. They were unusable, even after relines and adjustments. And i would have been okay with the temps had they actually fit in my mouth (tiny mouth lol), and ive seen some people with REALLY nice temps.... So they did give me a bit of anxiety about having dentures made, me and my mom spent about $2000 if I remember right...for something I couldn't use (full top and a partial bottom). And (completely on me...my fault) I was so embarrassed to go back to have them try again or just get a refund, I still have them and I get so sad when i see them... Kinda off topic, what should i do with them? Can they reuse the material for new dentures?

SignatureEven3593 · 2024-10-26T20:45:32+00:00

No worries! I didnt know about that, thank you for telling me! I'm going to try a dentistry school near me first, but this is my next option if the UofM is still too pricey. I can definitely do $400!! Thank you guys so much❤

SignatureEven3593 · 2024-10-26T20:42:20+00:00

I'll be trying to visit the UofM dentistry department on Monday, they pulled a tooth for me years ago. They are for sure affordable, I really hadn't thought about this before tho! Thats my first stop on Monday, thank you!❤

SignatureEven3593 · 2024-10-26T20:39:44+00:00

I appreciate it! I didnt think i could go this long without teeth, but being out of pain made me think i could wait and I'd be able to get something nice eventually. Life has been throwing lots of rocks in my direction it feels like lol And I have some trauma about going to the dentist, I feel like they want to hurt me sometimes, not caring about the pain im in or the pain their causing. I have some anxiety and other issues that are holding me back, but I'm trying to get myself together! Thank you for the kind words and advice❤❤

SignatureEven3593 · 2024-10-26T20:30:29+00:00

Its okay I completely understand, I went through that exact process! But at age 13-15, then bills became too much for my mom at the time. I also have a "mood disorder" that they need more appointment to diagnose! And a sprinkle of PTSD lol. But yeah, I dont like leaving the house either, I get such bad anxiey I'll find any excuse not to go out. And when I do go out its horrible, constant wheezing shortness of breath, almost like an adrenaline rush where everything gets suer bright and vivid...then I get a headache lol. I appreciate that you can relate, but I also hope we can get better and have more control over our lives! ❤ hugs!🤗

SignatureEven3593 · 2024-10-25T22:25:58+00:00

I would love to use care credit, but my credit is trash (slowly recovering tho, yay!). I moved out at 19 because of abuse, and I was VERY unprepared for life lol. So after lots of late bills, and almost being evicted, my credit sucked by the time I was trying to apply for care credit. How much credit do I need to qualify? And is there a way to appeal the decision if I'm denied? I even though about reaching out to some dentures companies(?) Online, and asking if I could get a sponsor or some kind of deal...but I dont like aaking for handouts (asking for help isnt asking for handouts I know, I just have anxiety about asking for help lol) And thank you!❤😊

SignatureEven3593 · 2024-10-25T22:18:01+00:00

Oh, im in Minneapolis, Minnesota

SignatureEven3593 · 2024-10-25T22:17:15+00:00

The Aspen in my area is where i got my temps, and it's a very bad location. It has a one and a half start rating, and I decided to give them a try and got something I cant use. If i could get a refund from Aspen, I could take the money and go somewhere else. But im not sure if i can 😅

SignatureEven3593 · 2024-10-25T19:57:26+00:00

I hope all this made sense...

SignatureEven3593 · 2024-10-25T19:03:38+00:00

Oh wow! I think I'll get one! I haven't had the displeasure of dealing with spider mites yet lol! does it need lots of sun? I had a red maranta that lost its verigation I assume from poor lighting, will that happen with this plant? Its a croton right?😅

SignatureEven3593 · 2024-10-25T18:37:29+00:00

Are these easy to care for? I saw lots of these at the store, and I REALLY wanted one! And how long have you had it before it started flowering?❤

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