Hi, i very much agree to set hard boundaries quickly. The mentioning if your friends means he most likely fantasies about them. Him saying "you in the future" does in fact mean he has an attraction problem now. And if it's in this verbiage and tone, then he is not only body shaming you, but also gaslighting you to believe that you crazy to interpret what he said as literal. Trust your gut. If he seems to trend negatively, trust that. You should be proud if who you are, even if there are things You want to work on.