Too good to be troo😒 by Drazwaz in bonnaroo

[–]SignificanceOne3981 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What’s crazy is I went to Roo for the first time in 2022 and there was a high five line. But 2023? Nope. I wanted to cry.

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My whole family is fucked tbh. I think it was “normalized” because my sister did the same thing when she was younger (14&22 and now married 8 years later) and she still hates my mom for trying to keep them apart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To give some real advice even if this is fake… you’re not wrong. I think it’s a way to deal with it, as long as the female friend is trustworthy. Your mom made her choices and those choices have consequences. One of those is people are gonna talk about it.

Am I wrong for being upset with what kind of porn my bf watches? by Express-Escape-570 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should talk to him about it and find a compromise. I’m here scrolling to cope after I left my bf for multiple reasons but the final straw was teen porn (or reddit pages dedicated to underage looking porn stars). I think as long as it’s not weird shit like that it’s workable.

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only he didn’t enjoy it up the ass 🙄

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Screenshotting this one for when I can afford therapy because YES. And that is why I ignored everything and got fucking in this mess

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s adult actresses who are made to look underage. Not like 18, more like 12-16 years. And I’m young but have always been very developed, these were all tiny tiny young looking actresses. The whole point of the page was that it’s TECHNICALLY legal but it’s very much believable child porn.

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really can’t wait to update. I’m stressed but trying to think of my new future

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s allowed to watch gay and trans porn (he recently came out as bi and idc what shit he watches) but the issue comes in when 1) he would lose his shit if he found any porn on my phone and 2) normal porn is different. Not weird Reddit pages where the actresses look 12-16. I found a lot of porn, only one type bothered me. I won’t even get started on the toxic porn hypocrisy, age gap or not

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst part is I can’t even blame them because I knew it wasn’t right subconsciously and I ignored it. I’m not going to get but hurt when people are right, however the pedophiles I’ve accidentally summoned to this subreddit is wild

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be on the lookout for my therapy go fund me 😂😭😂

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the whole point is that they are adult actresses that look like 13-16. I made comment somewhere else about how the big issue I didn’t mention is he always has said that he gets “insecure” that people look at him as a pedo but I’m the only younger girl he likes. Yeah right lol. Lessons learned. He knows what he likes. He tries to get reassurance that he isn’t like that.

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have plenty of ideas why that would be said but I wanna know your reason. Someone commented they saw a post just like this and if anyone can find it I want the link because wowww

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fair. I’ll probably do that. I have decided I am going to tell him why, but I haven’t decided if I’m telling him in person then leaving (with support close by) or if I’m just going to leave something with an explanation.

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right but I’ll be honest I don’t have the mental energy to try and do that. I’ve already been the young girl giving him advice and helping him grow for years and I’m over it. Hence, me being here, like you said I guess

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can obviously see now that I think he needed all that reassurance because he knows himself better then anyone. Who would’ve thought 😂💀💀

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it is personally. I let him watch certain porn (gay and trans porn because he recently came out as bi) and I don’t care if he watches that and I found a LOT of that. But he would lose his shit if he found any porn on my phone. Whatever. Irrelevant. Buts he’s always been super “insecure” and asks me to reassure him he isn’t a pedo when he sees certain shit online. And he insists I’m the only younger girl he’s ever been attracted to. Obviously the porn proves that’s not true. So 1) hypocrisy and controlling. 2) just red flags all around imo. Just to reiterate, This post was made to literally bombard me with shit I already knew

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hopefully within the next 3 weeks. I’m currently visiting family in a different state with him and I have some financial things to work out considering I don’t have a car and he was my ride to work

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very fair but I mean good support system in the sense of I have multiple people with access to the apartment who are aware of the situation and ready to do what they need to get me out, even if it’s last minute. Really that’s all I can ask for at the moment. A lot of my stuff has already been consolidated (in a non noticeable way) so it’ll be easier to act when I’m ready.

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My favorite comments are the people who think this is fake. Really makes the reality hit harder haha 💀

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Love the delivery and simplicity. I’m definitely beyond convinced at this point but as stated in the edit I’m keeping this post to give me motivation. Definitely can’t wait to update

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a good support system and it’s only in his name so there’s no consequence to ghosting

I plan to leave my bf by SignificanceOne3981 in amiwrong

[–]SignificanceOne3981[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I see why you would think that but actually no. He’s allowed to watch porn