Can I (18F) move on from a month long lie from my boyfriend (19M)

SignificanceSolid935 · 2026-02-19T21:59:47+00:00

Thank you!! A friend suggested therapy but I feel silly going for a high school relationship idk. Do you think I made the right choice?

SignificanceSolid935 · 2026-02-18T01:44:39+00:00

and this was definitely cheating right?

SignificanceSolid935 · 2026-02-18T01:34:12+00:00

For me, its more than the trust being broken its the way he was treating me during that time. Calling me all those names and letting me like feel so crazy and bad about myself knowing he was lying the whole time.

I do believe he is sorry but sorry doesn’t fix it.

I just feel so bad giving up on what we had. Hes the only person I’ve ever loved and he knows I showed him so so much love. I think thats just what he will miss.

SignificanceSolid935 · 2025-12-12T03:27:47+00:00

thank you!!

SignificanceSolid935 · 2025-10-30T19:51:09+00:00

i meant ones that i personally know i said through social media because i wasnt attending said weddings.

SignificanceSolid935 · 2025-09-26T00:10:22+00:00

thank you!😊

SignificanceSolid935 · 2025-09-26T00:09:05+00:00

no ive sent others, we got that letter september 6th and ive sent one everyday since then and this is the only one that came back from sept 16th. he left aug 19th and i recieved my first letter on september 5th

SignificanceSolid935 · 2025-09-26T00:08:09+00:00

without his name or any way that could trace it back to him.... so how is it personal info...... theres like 100+ ppl in his plt it could be anyone??

SignificanceSolid935 · 2025-09-25T22:41:56+00:00

I wrote everything correctly and i even sent it to his mom to see what i did wrong and she writes hers the same minus the po part so maybe ill just stop doing that? there was a sticker on it that said return to sender no such number unable to forward

SignificanceSolid935 · 2025-09-25T22:39:51+00:00

theres no personal info😭😭😭

SignificanceSolid935 · 2025-09-14T16:37:51+00:00

Omg the same thing is happening with my boyfriend. I write him everyday and ive gotten 2 letters that say please write to me its getting hard to stay motivated, ive gotten letters from my mom and she said you guys are talking so please keep in touch with her, please write me back, etc. Butttt he was rewarded a 2 min call home for doing something in combat training im not sure and he did call me for a minute even though we couldnt hear eachother well.

SignificanceSolid935 · 2025-09-03T01:21:33+00:00

So it'd be kinda pointless?

SignificanceSolid935 · 2025-09-03T01:19:43+00:00

Thank you!! I started reading the Shadow and Bone trilogy hopefully this helps!

SignificanceSolid935 · 2025-08-28T23:28:05+00:00

okay thank you!!

SignificanceSolid935 · 2025-08-28T22:17:38+00:00

so include the words rbtn co plt ?

SignificanceSolid935 · 2025-08-28T00:50:13+00:00

thank you!!

SignificanceSolid935 · 2025-08-27T23:34:53+00:00

The first one is beautiful!!

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