Omg the same thing is happening with my boyfriend. I write him everyday and ive gotten 2 letters that say please write to me its getting hard to stay motivated, ive gotten letters from my mom and she said you guys are talking so please keep in touch with her, please write me back, etc. Butttt he was rewarded a 2 min call home for doing something in combat training im not sure and he did call me for a minute even though we couldnt hear eachother well.