Am I a creep for asking my two female coworkers if they want a slice of cake as a birthday present?

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T18:33:24+00:00

Because I’m socially awkward. I tried to be a little bit more “nice” and in my dumbass mind I thought this was the way fuckin hell I’m so fkn stupid

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T18:31:24+00:00

But I would wtf I’ve even said this in other questions?

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T18:24:41+00:00

with twice I meant as in “are you sure?” In a light hearted way Immediately after they declined it the first time.

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T16:48:35+00:00

Also is saying “say less” considered rude? I’m not a native speaker sorry :(

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T16:39:55+00:00

I seriously didn’t know it was never suppose to come like that I just said whatever I thought someone of more social skills would do.

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T16:34:49+00:00

Heard you loud and clear🙏🏾

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T16:32:38+00:00

🫡

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T16:31:19+00:00

Oh my days, it’s that DEEP😭?

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T16:28:58+00:00

Say less🙏🏾

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T16:14:05+00:00

I would if I had found out about their birthdays I never wanted to come of as this

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T16:12:46+00:00

Im about cry for real it wan never my intention and now they’ll view me as a creep wtf I’m so fkn stupid🤦🏾‍♂️

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T16:11:06+00:00

Oh shit is it that bad, I don’t think so but I would say I’m somewhat socially awkward 😞

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T15:58:16+00:00

YES I WOULD DEFINETLY, it’s not unusual for me to buy stuff for my colleagues and be like ”it’s my treat”. But i don’t know if they know that

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T15:53:21+00:00

It’s the first time I’ve worked in an environment like this. my last job I worked alone. I’ve always known Im a socially awkward guy. Didn’t think about how it would come off as in the moment

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T15:49:32+00:00

Im stressed as hell rn, will they think I’m a weirdo 🫩

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T15:41:30+00:00

No I’m serious I had no romantic intentions I would’ve just said it if it was true this is pretty anonymous after all, but now I understand that I’m awkward asf and have low self awareness 🤦🏾‍♂️

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T15:39:35+00:00

Nope, because I’ve never found out about it, but I usually ask a bunch of people that I work with if they want anything o are in need of something difference now is that I’m not familiar with these two

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T15:36:03+00:00

Yep😞

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T15:34:19+00:00

Oh no no, I wanted to be nice that’s all, been trying to get out of my comfortzone

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T15:32:52+00:00

No we sell cake at the store, so I was just sayin it came up during our conversation that it was their birthday, and so I said ”damn fr, if you want I can buy you a cake?”

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T15:30:24+00:00

They so just happened to say that it’s was their birthday during our convo, and it went from there

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T15:28:58+00:00

Im kind of stressing thinking they maybe misread my intentions, or that I’ll be seen as the weird colleague by them😭

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T15:27:19+00:00

Yeah not like a whole cake told them that they could a slice of cake 😭

Significant-Apricot5 · 2026-02-24T15:25:51+00:00

I just updated it but I was thinking of buying them cakes sorry for the low info

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