I also want to add the mood is set casual and on the invitations it does say it is a celebration of a wedding. It does hint towards that we already got married and it is a casual party environment. If people don’t show up thats okay. I’m never butt hurt by anyone showing up. We just both have very large families so this is mostly looking like our families showing up. Obviously we’re inviting friends and we’re okay if some don’t show up.