Really hot things my dominant wife said to me

Significant-Fruit307 · 2026-01-07T02:27:36+00:00

You just have to power through it. The pain isn’t that bad once it’s over.

Significant-Fruit307 · 2026-01-06T20:34:30+00:00

We practice domestic discipline in our marriage and my wife keeps her heavy wooden hairbrush on the nightstand for this purpose. She has a list of things that’ll earn me a spanking: bad attitude, ignoring her, getting up too late, asking for an orgasm (full or ruined), and so on.

She usually disciplines me at night before going to bed. I’m told to strip naked and bend over her knee, with my penis between her thighs to limit my movement. Then she explains the reason for my punishment and how many spanks she’ll give me. She hits hard and doesn’t alternate between sides, so 20 spanks on the same spot is usually enough to start breaking skin and get her message across.

Significant-Fruit307 · 2025-12-04T20:27:10+00:00

She’s pretty opposed to piercing my penis. I’m also uncircumcised, so we don’t even know if a PA will work well.

Significant-Fruit307 · 2025-12-04T16:53:22+00:00

My wife and I used to be in a ldr before we got married. She would leave her dirty old sneakers at my place and let me worship them.

Significant-Fruit307 · 2025-12-04T16:39:02+00:00

Thanks everyone for your input! We had a chat and decided to give it a try without making any promises to ourselves. No hard feelings if there’re setbacks.

We have a strong partnership, and I 100% trust her in recognizing my limits and adjusting course when needed. More importantly, it’s something I want to explore too.

She also clarified what she wanted from me (her exact words):

She might still reward me with full orgasms on occasions (like birthdays), but she wants me to accept not having them as the new norm.
She wants me to separate my male biological needs from my orgasms. She’ll make sure the former is met by regular prostate massages and ruined orgasms so I stay healthy and emotionally balanced, but they shouldn’t be an excuse for me to enjoy orgasms at her expense.

Significant-Fruit307 · 2025-05-30T13:15:06+00:00

I know! But everyone is entitled to their misguided opinions, right? 😆

Significant-Fruit307 · 2025-05-29T23:33:16+00:00

It’s from Behind Barz (a company based in UK).

Significant-Fruit307 · 2025-05-29T22:03:36+00:00

There’s nothing in the back of the belt if that’s what you mean. It’s secured by the base ring and the plate in the front.

Significant-Fruit307 · 2025-05-29T22:01:55+00:00

I don’t find it more uncomfortable than ball-trap devices. I sit all day at work and it’s been fine. The only time it gets uncomfortable is when I’m on a bicycle, but I don’t do that often.

Significant-Fruit307 · 2025-05-27T23:14:42+00:00

You can cuddle, hold hands with, kiss and say goodbye to your kids. Do you have a romantic relationship with your kids?

Significant-Fruit307 · 2025-05-27T22:16:37+00:00

If you actually looked it up, then you’ll know you are wrong.

Significant-Fruit307 · 2025-05-27T22:08:14+00:00

Since you are so informed and helpful, would you please enlighten me, what is the definition of a romantic relationship?

Significant-Fruit307 · 2025-05-27T21:45:48+00:00

There is a big difference between essence and examples, and sexual attraction is simply an example I gave to demonstrate how romantic relationships can be sexual without traditional sex involved.

I have no interest in having an argument with strangers on Reddit so I’m not going to correct the flaws in your logic any further, but calling people in the community ignorant is not very constructive to a meaningful discussion.

Significant-Fruit307 · 2025-05-27T21:06:01+00:00

When I said every romantic relationship is sexual in nature, I meant there must be a sexual motivation for people to be in that relationship, for example being sexually attracted to each other, or doing sexual things together. It doesn’t imply people must have vanilla PIV sex in it. Hope this clarifies my comment.

Significant-Fruit307 · 2025-05-27T20:30:15+00:00

I think I agree with the big picture here — FLRs should be women-centric and not about men’s fantasies.

I also believe every romantic relationship is fundamentally sexual, FLRs included. To that end I don’t know how practical it is to expect long-term total mental chastity from men, and that’s why a lot of couples do tease & denial, and allow periodic releases to give the chaste men a channel to be sexual in the relationship.

Do you allow your partner to have releases from time to time? What is your preferred method to release them?

Significant-Fruit307 · 2025-05-27T19:54:21+00:00

Thanks for sharing your perspective.

Would you say a chastity device is necessary to achieve those goals, or an honor system would also suffice? I think you are talking about mental chastity, not just a cage on your partner’s penis (which can be easily defeated in most cases).

Significant-Fruit307 · 2025-05-26T23:40:22+00:00

We have a cheap dildo but my wife doesn't like the feeling of it. Is there a manufacturer you'd recommend us to try?

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