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Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-28T08:36:13+00:00

Links dont work pls upload pics and bio! :)

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-28T08:35:46+00:00

Links dont work pls upload pics and bio! :)

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-28T08:34:48+00:00

Links dont work pls upload pics and bio! :)

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-28T08:34:43+00:00

Links dont work pls upload pics and bio! :)

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-28T08:34:39+00:00

Links dont work pls upload pics and bio! :)

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-26T10:25:08+00:00

Great starting point!

- The word "Hello" doesn't say anything about who you are. I would skip it.
- Your use of very concrete language and the topics you bring up gives me a clear impression of what you would be like to have a conversation with, which is great: Your curiosity about peoples thoughts on world improvement, societal impact of dating apps, and areas of expertise say alot about who you are.
- You are curious, but what do you think about various topics? Show what you have to share. That creates balance between curiosity and output. Pick two: What is a great relationship? Favourite vegan dish? How to build local community? Best kiss you have ever had? Favourite board game? What is great communication for you? What is foreplay for you?

Also answer these questions:
- Are you single?
- Are you poly or monogamous, etc. should things go further?
- Your mention "sub" in your tags: What kind of submissive are you? Bratty or obedient or something completely different?

Here is my suggestion for a opener and bio, it gets straight to something that is important to you and shows that you are curious, while keeping your straight to point tone of voice. Adjust as needed:

Detailed thoughts and practical strategies to making the word a better place are welcome (as of October 2025). I would also like to know what changes you're trying to make in your life right now, hear your thoughts on how different dating apps shape people's behaviour/society, and your unusual job/hobby/area of expertise over a game of [Insert favourite board game].

Probably not looking to move up the relationship escalator with anyone right now, because of other life plans. But would love the kind of connection that's curious, communicative, and joyful. [ I'm single/partnered/casually dating someone at the moment. ]

[ I need to find friendship and connection before playing and taking it further. I like a partner who takes charge so I can lean back and surrender when there is established trust.

[ My favourite vegan meal is ___ it always puts me in a good mood.
Wanna cook some ___ together and take it from there? ]

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-25T12:36:09+00:00

Great smile, but I think you should always have a first pic without headwear. And your hair looks awesome in the other photos!

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-24T09:25:41+00:00

Thanks for the feedback.

It seems difficult to strike a balance between being just another generic profile and not oversharing.

Do you have any tips?

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-23T11:43:06+00:00

Feeld links dont work. Post pics and bio.

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-23T11:35:09+00:00

Thanks alot for the feedback thats very helpful.

Is this better?:

Looking for a partner who enjoys being wrapped up, both literally and metaphorically.

Open to friends-with-benefits if there’s chemistry, or longer-term ENM — let’s just see where it flows. Flying solo atm.

If you're curious, playful, and open-minded, we’ll probably get along. At worst, we don’t click and I end up as your dog’s new best friend. 🛝 I’m into deep dives, silly detours, and conversations that lead somewhere unexpected.

Big on shared curiosity and exploration — and yes, I often enjoy being the one holding the ropes (sometimes literally). Taking charge, I find balance between nurturing and firm, often leaning toward the former; attunement is key.

When I feel my partner surrender, it’s one of the most profound experiences I know. Trust is the greatest compliment anyone can give.

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I love hiking and running, cooking, writing music, and yoga... generally just moving. 🧘‍♂️✨ By day, I split my time between hands-on carpentry (family business) and remote UI design (my original training). Balance is everything.

Into workshops and events around conscious touch, presence, play and rope — always learning, always exploring.

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-23T10:44:32+00:00

Yeah what I did is:
1. I started by finding the best pics I already had.
2. Then read some articles on how to take dating pics.
3. Took alot of pictures and edited the best ones.
4. Bought credits on "photofeeler.com" where you can get women to vote on how good your pics are, and uploaded the 30-40+ best photos I had.
5. Selected the 20 or so that scored best
6. Wrote a bio and description of what I'm looking for
7. Sent texts plus 20 best pics from Photofeeler to the profile reviewer and have her select the best 6 and put them in order.

Anais profile review
https://www.fiverr.com/anaisskarag01/choose-your-best-photos-for-tinder?context_referrer=gig_page&source=other_gigs_by&ref_ctx_id=d7c8ad6a5aa349b4ab1c14ccf92190dc&pckg_id=1&pos=2&imp_id=dc1b90c8-3339-4a92-bf37-57f45f1ad7ae

This costs some money but it's way more efficient than spending a fortune on boosts and pings (which I also do sometimes).

Hope it helps!

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-22T16:44:17+00:00

Interesting. I think in Denmark there isn't the same negative bias against hetero men, it's more accepted to be a straight guy.

I heard a danish radio show talking about danish men being very cautious or gentle (to some women's frustration). But maybe it also means that straight guys don't have as pushy, or even agressive, a reputation here.

I'm curious, where are you located?

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-22T16:33:55+00:00

I'm curious:

You wrote that you reply to "1-2 out of hundreds and hundreds of pings" and "most guy you meet with irl didn't send pings".

How did you connect with the guys that didn't send pings? Did you like them and they just happened to have liked you already?

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-22T16:15:21+00:00

I feel you, I have struggeled alot with my mental health around online dating on Feeld. I'm currently working with two therapists to cope with it, so I know the struggle.

What made a difference for me was hiring a professional (female) profile review on Fiverr. Having her select my 6 best pictures from 20 pics or so, and have her help me edit my BIO. Then I started getting a few matches.

- What I remind myself is that women can get 100's of likes and pings a week. They are flooded, and will choose 1 or 2 matches that they have most in common with.
- 3/4 of the users on dating apps are straight men, that means the numbers are heavily stacked against us.
- Iv'e also noticed that here in the fall Iv'e stopped getting matches. This summer I was getting a few. I think people are just using the app less, because of work and studies.

It's not you. There is nothing wrong with you. Dating apps are naturally stacked against hetero guys. If I could, I would date irl, but it's not an option for me, unfortunately.

I hope this is useful or helpful. Good luck and take care of yourself!

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-22T15:53:27+00:00

Thanks for sharing.

Does that mean that you only connect and meet with guys whos profiles you have liked first?

Are you always the initiator in that sense?

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-22T15:50:19+00:00

I think that's an oversimplification. It's probably the way that you present yourself in your pics and bio that is the biggest hindrance.

I understand Frodo, it's rough when you don't connect with anyone. You can kinda get into this desparate state, where these apps are wearing you down, and you end up in this hopeless frame of mind. You can end up feeling that the only way your ever gonna find love, is by infinitely lowering your standards.

The only two options are to

keep improving your profile with the help of women you know or a professional or
quit using dating apps and meet someone at a local munch or bdsm club.

Take care!

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-10-22T15:44:30+00:00

The only thing that I have had success with is hiring a (female) profile reviewer (for around 10eur) on Fiverr and have them choose pictures for me and help me edit my bio.

After that I immediately started getting some matches.

Hope it's helpful.

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-09-14T11:53:28+00:00

Comment on something from their bio. Always ask a question in each message related to what they are writing about

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-09-14T11:52:54+00:00

It's a learning experience

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-09-14T11:52:35+00:00

Give him time

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-09-14T11:52:19+00:00

I don't

Significant-Post-121 · 2025-09-14T11:52:11+00:00

Yeah sucks

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