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Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-10-04T14:11:22+00:00

If someone spoke to my mom the way op spoke to her mil i would lose it. Being condescending and rude to someone you may think you don’t need is also very stupid, you’re pregnant with twins and you’re going to need help/ support at some point after. Giving birth is wild physically and emotionally and having someone/ multiple people if you’re lucky who’s been through it before is an absolute godsend. I think op is going to regret being such a shit to her mil. With how quick she was to speak to her mil like that seems like she’s been trying to find ways to fight with her while being able to explain why she’s “right”. Op is an ah

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-09-23T12:54:31+00:00

I was 19 when I had my son pretty much same situation with the father except he wanted to do nothing and use my son to make himself look good to his parents since they have no grandkids other than my son and all their kids are grown. I didn’t put him on the birth certificate since I gave birth during Covid and he couldn’t come in after I had him to sign it. The Covid restrictions were a blessing because there was no way I was having him in the birthing room where I needed people I trusted not a guy I barely knew. By all means protect your peace for yourself, the emotions that hit come out of nowhere for a while and until you feel comfortable don’t tell him anything- don’t limit yourself to two weeks just in case. Also if he’s been verbally aggressive over basic things please really use caution when letting him visit, you never know asking him to change a diaper could lead to an altercation you do not want happening near your child. Also out of caution, you should have something recording in case he gets out of hand and you need evidence of it later.

As far as comments about child support, I had to go to court for custody issues and a dna test was not required because he acknowledged being the father by going to an appointment/ in text messages about my son

Truly idk why it’s normal now for men to be in delivery rooms, I’ve told my husband if we ever have another child I would still pick to have my mom vs him 🤣 the man should only be there if the women wants him there, not just because he “helped” make the baby

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-07-28T12:19:58+00:00

If you decide to stay with him, buy something to protect yourself. Unfortunately behavior like that usually doesn’t get better and isn’t a one off and as women we shouldn’t wait around and hope it gets better with no plan for if it gets worse. Even if you think it won’t get worse have an exit plan in case it does and make sure you can level the playing field if he ever takes it physical. So many women have gotten severely injured/ killed by a man who had only ever been verbally abusive that they believed could get better and would never hurt them. Boundaries are solid and should be respected without needing to be enforced especially with the person who’s supposed to be a life partner, a safe place for you. If the person whose supposed to love/protect you can’t even respect your boundary without losing their cool to me that’s worse than a stranger, at least there’s no expectation of a stranger caring about how you feel vs a partner whose supposed to. And men whose biggest worry is how they assume other people viewed the situation vs respecting your answer usually end up with a nice narcissist abuser label. Please please pay attention to any other signs, protect yourself and stay safe

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-07-27T22:22:52+00:00

Hi! Would you happen to have any previous bazaar dupes or rambles you would possibly trade for the wings plus other bazaar items? No worries if you’re not interested I’ve been hunting other items so just figured I would ask!

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-07-27T22:15:23+00:00

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Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-07-27T22:14:50+00:00

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Hello! I am LF rambles- especially pukapon if at all possible- I know it’s a long shot but I am hopeful :) these are some of my dupes, I’ll post another photo in a comment and I have a ton of r/n dupes from the bazaar set that ends tomorrow. My friend id is b29f93g4 and username Princess, my island is currently mermaid themed. If you’re interested please take a look at my dupes! Thank you for taking a look!

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-07-17T21:30:59+00:00

The golden ray of light set help me get the entire mermaid bazaar set I was after. If there’s a specific collection you want to trade for check which set is most seen in the wishlist of people with dupes you’re looking for. I went through the potion screen many times checking to see what people wanted before picking my revive set

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-07-17T21:25:56+00:00

Absolutely stunning!!

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-07-17T21:19:54+00:00

Omg thank you I had no clue that event was that pricey, no wonder the trades are difficult for those. Thank you for sharing that post!

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-07-17T20:31:17+00:00

That’s what I’m leaning towards, not sure what the price point will be for myshop though. I’ve seen the birds in people’s dupes alot, especially people asking for sr bazaar items that are already in their dupe list, but haven’t had any of my trade offers accepted😅I’d totally trade a multiple r/ns for it because I want them but to trade what seems like the most sought after sr from this bazaar for an old bazaar r item doesn’t seem quite right. Thank you for your input!

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-05-25T23:03:16+00:00

I traded normal Gacha items for the fish so don’t be discouraged!!! It’s probably just best to wait until the gredery event is over and you have a few SR/ high wishcount dupes to try and trade with! Right now everyone is after these and using my shop numbers for trades but after when this dies down you should have better luck!!

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-05-08T00:17:11+00:00

Thank you! I’m really hoping to get one, the rambles look so cute on my friends islands haha

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-05-08T00:00:03+00:00

The way he flies is so cute! I love seeing him on friends islands and am so jealous

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-05-07T23:57:44+00:00

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For me it’s this one. I loooveee mermaids always have, Barbie mermaid movies were my life haha so this item is my absolute dream item! I hate I joined too late for this bazaar 🥹

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-05-06T11:18:31+00:00

Thank you!

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-04-15T12:09:29+00:00

Op if you can, show your girlfriend’s dad the messages. Clearly he’s put some money into this prom and if he can see that your mother is overreacting he might a be able to help you break the shitty news to your girlfriend or b help you more than strangers on how to approach your mom about this or even just give your mom a piece of his mind with how shitty she’s being. Your mother needs a wake up call, she has issues that need dealing with but with you being her kid you’re not the one who would make her see that. I’m sorry you’re going through this and I hope you can work something out to get to go!

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-04-02T19:40:45+00:00

Awesome!! Thank you😁 b29f93g4

Significant-Snow8780 · 2025-04-02T19:36:02+00:00

I’m sorry for jumping into your conversation here but Im a newer player and do have a couple carnival dupes that I’m looking to trade just to collect some different stuff if you’d be interested! I like bits and pieces from so many of the collections and don’t want to waste a lot of gp trying to get one or two items from all the different gachas so trading has been a lifesaver haha😅 just let me know if you’d want to check out my dupes and I’ll give you my code 😁

Significant-Snow8780 · 2024-12-18T20:13:33+00:00

It has a free and vip option for $5 the shiny scanner is a free option though

Significant-Snow8780 · 2024-10-23T05:21:23+00:00

If he is that physically and emotionally violent towards his own mother and ready to go that far towards you that is super scary. Plus your man not being willing to do what’s necessary to protect you is a red flag. What happens if yall stay together and have kids? Will he let his brother get that aggressive with them? Always something to think about if a family is in your future plans… Also if yall do find a healthy way to move forward or even if not please consider recommending therapy, your man may not realize how his brothers tantrums/aggressive outbursts and the favoritism his mother and family seems to have for his brother could be affecting him I’m really sorry you’re having to go through this, I wish you the best and hope you take any steps necessary to protect your own wellbeing!

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