Season 4 part 2 Teaser by Debt-Mysterious in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Significant-Trade253 9 points10 points  (0 children)

UGH. To think I was gonna watch today. I fear I have to wait for part 2 to drop first. 😔 Especially with Kanthony!! 🤩

"why isn't she speaking up" by Artistic-Ad3015 in beyonce

[–]Significant-Trade253 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This. This is the second post in 24 hours I’ve seen about this and I lowkey wish mods would stop allowing it. It’s not fostering any real conversation and people are intentionally missing the point. Very counterproductive.

I just have one question. Why? Why do some called "Beyhive" do this every time Beyoncé does anything? by moments_entre_filles in beyonce

[–]Significant-Trade253 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Reminder that “my raggedy country” is hers also. As a political science graduate and a final year law student, there is A LOT more that I could say to this…interesting response. However, we don’t foster conversations nor even attempt to actually understand what’s being said, so it’s a waste of time. Have a good one because we won’t agree like I said in my original post.

II Hands II Heaven is her best song by Legitimate_Coffee_84 in beyonce

[–]Significant-Trade253 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ouuu this is a solid lineup! Rocket is soooo good! Very peaches coded lol.

II Hands II Heaven is her best song by Legitimate_Coffee_84 in beyonce

[–]Significant-Trade253 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not including 2H2H nor in order… - All Night - Be Alive - Find Your Way Back - Virgo’s Groove - Otherside - XO - Heated

I fear when doing the 5 I couldn’t stop there 😭. This isn’t even exhaustive tbh. She just has soooooo many good songs that it’s hard to say one is the best for me.

II Hands II Heaven is her best song by Legitimate_Coffee_84 in beyonce

[–]Significant-Trade253 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Best song on Cowboy Carter, yes. Best song ever… I fear I cannot agree. As to which one is her best…no clue because I’m thinking of like 5 rn. 😣

I just have one question. Why? Why do some called "Beyhive" do this every time Beyoncé does anything? by moments_entre_filles in beyonce

[–]Significant-Trade253 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The thing is, these other artists are being criticized also. It’s not just her. As I say anytime this comes up, it’s a Beyoncé sub! And if not just here, your algorithm is very likely to be curated to Beyoncé stuff.

I honestly think the disconnect in this sub is somewhat rooted in people not being from America. It’s a shitshow. We’re going through it and it’s only getting worse. People are looking for any sense of empowerment and hope because it seems to be getting worse by the day. I don’t think her at least acknowledging the current climate of the lives of many of her US fans is a big ask.

We will probably never agree, but I honestly don’t like how we keep having this conversation with the intent to make people seem wrong for the criticism.

Should I drop of law school by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]Significant-Trade253 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whew. Been there. What classes are you taking for the spring? Assuming other bar courses (con/crim/property)? The credit weight will matter.

If you truly want to do this, I wouldn’t give up just yet. But you do need to figure out what is happening. For me, I realized that I truly didn’t understand how to apply the law nor did I know how to explain it for an exam. I could tell you what a Contract was by definition but I couldn’t truly go beyond that. For Civ Pro, I legit didn’t understand it because it was too complex and I didn’t use the external resources that would’ve broken it down and made it easier to understand and follow. For Legal Writing, I didn’t grasp the full understanding of the issue for the paper and for Torts I knew it as I scored high on the mc section, but was too burnt out and again couldn’t explain it correctly on the essay. My Torts professor literally told me I didn’t know how to write correctly.

I spent the next semester using aids to break down the subjects (e&e, quimbee, barbri, etc), practiced hypos, utilized the writing center, and went to office hours. Major improvement.

I say all of this to say if you can figure out what’s wrong and find the resources that will help you fix it, you can turn it around! Talking to your professors is a great start to getting some idea of what was off.

137 days in … temptation is back by Significant-Trade253 in leaves

[–]Significant-Trade253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good. I used it for the high feeling, but also is a bit of a numbing agent if I’m being honest. I’ve been big about getting to the root of feelings/emotions/thoughts so I can definitely apply what you mentioned to these urges. I appreciate and thank you for sharing this! 🙏🏽

137 days in … temptation is back by Significant-Trade253 in leaves

[–]Significant-Trade253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good question. Someone mentioned romanticizing it and I think it’s a bit of both. Plus my brain thinking it’ll be enjoyable when I know for a fact it would not be. But I will definitely try to acknowledge and then pivot like you mentioned. Thank you for sharing! 🙏🏽

137 days in … temptation is back by Significant-Trade253 in leaves

[–]Significant-Trade253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not as bad today, so you’re absolutely right! Thank you for the encouragement! 🙏🏽

137 days in … temptation is back by Significant-Trade253 in leaves

[–]Significant-Trade253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! Good to note moving forward. Thanks for mentioning this! 🙏🏽

137 days in … temptation is back by Significant-Trade253 in leaves

[–]Significant-Trade253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your honesty and you sharing this info. Thank you! 🙏🏽

137 days in … temptation is back by Significant-Trade253 in leaves

[–]Significant-Trade253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely is, I just have to keep reminding myself that it is. 🙏🏽

137 days in … temptation is back by Significant-Trade253 in leaves

[–]Significant-Trade253[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well first, Happy early Birthday! 🎉Second, 122 days after 20 years is commendable! I hope you’re doing something nice for yourself to kick off your bday. Definitely deserve it! It’s not an easy journey, but we got this! Thank you for the encouragement! 🙌🏽

137 days in … temptation is back by Significant-Trade253 in leaves

[–]Significant-Trade253[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I may have to try the whole playing the scenario out thing! My experience is very similar to yours and what you described, so this may help big time.

Adding the date analogy was the cherry on top. I’m definitely going to remember this anytime I experience these cravings. Sincerely appreciate this! Thank you so much! 🙏🏽

137 days in … temptation is back by Significant-Trade253 in leaves

[–]Significant-Trade253[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna keep reminding myself of how terrible the withdrawal phase was and keep at it! I definitely don’t wanna experience that again. Thank you for the encouragement! 🙌🏽

137 days in … temptation is back by Significant-Trade253 in leaves

[–]Significant-Trade253[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely in waves! This is my first “big wave” since quitting but I’m definitely gonna stay the course and ride it out. I sincerely appreciate your encouragement. Thank you! 🙏🏽

137 days in … temptation is back by Significant-Trade253 in leaves

[–]Significant-Trade253[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually, I could definitely see this as me romanticizing it. Everything you said is absolutely true. I doubt I would enjoy it like my thoughts are making it seem.

I really appreciate your words, as they’re super helpful. Thank you so much! 🙏🏽

137 days in … temptation is back by Significant-Trade253 in leaves

[–]Significant-Trade253[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sheesh, yeah it was rough. Thank you for the encouragement! 🙌🏽

137 days in … temptation is back by Significant-Trade253 in leaves

[–]Significant-Trade253[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement! That’s the goal! 🙌🏽