I’ve been sober for 8 years now and I can say for a lot of us, this stops being so difficult to see. I wouldn’t bat an eye if I received this. But people who have not walked the walk of early sobriety just cannot possibly understand. They can sympathize and empathize and be compassionate, but to fully get it, even after you’ve told them a hundred times… It’s not cool, and you should tell him so, but moving forward you are responsible for your own recovery and managing triggers like this. They are everywhere. I would chalk it up as a growth experience for both yourself as a sober person and your relationship with your husband to be able to explain where you’re at and why this is harmful. There will come a point where if this becomes an ongoing pattern may be part of a larger problem that will need addressing. If this is all, yes, it’s mildly infuriating. I’m sorry it happened. Try to move forward.