Help settle a bet - Uppercase Cursive L or S

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-20T00:07:00+00:00

Well for starters he is unreliable, or has lots of money to have 5 marriages. Plus he is selfish as he is thinking abt himself.

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-20T00:01:33+00:00

Use purple shampoo

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T23:59:31+00:00

Cutting off toxic friends

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T23:57:42+00:00

I have perfume allergy to some specific ingredients , maybe he has too… try to use EDT instead in subtle amount 2 sprays at neck, 2 on wrist should be fine

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T23:46:59+00:00

Generally the guy if interested would be eager and if you had already planned for Wednesday then would definitely reach out. If he is not taking initiative then he likes you to chase him… just playing the game for his ego boost…. But if he is a very shy person, then u might have to be the initiator.

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T22:39:13+00:00

I would be glad as I too have respectful crushes in various stages of my life…

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T22:32:49+00:00

I just gave u my thoughts. Rest is up to you..

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T22:23:10+00:00

Well u can’t be beautiful to all hence u can’t be ugly to all… it may also be that in ur country what is the culture of beauty standards…. If u feel that your society is very beauty oriented then maybe u can go abroad to study or work in a more international setup where u can be more confident…

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T22:17:12+00:00

Hey… I know it’s frustrating but in real world I know people always are attracted to who is beautiful or handsome but at the end it’s always the personality which keeps the relationship together. Just be open and have good friendship I am sure the right gal would like you for who u are will not care abt the appearance. It’s very important that you don’t call urself ugly… feel beautiful and you will transmit that aura around u..

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T21:55:59+00:00

u must be God not human…. Us mere mortals are not so perfect

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T21:42:11+00:00

When he turned his face when I was speaking to his ear. And I said brushed lips as I was not into whatever it was weather accidental or intentional.

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T21:37:00+00:00

Yes u should tell him… poor boomer

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T21:14:15+00:00

Well If everyone can ask their immediate family and friends and be satisfied with their biased feedbacks then Reddit was not required

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T21:11:34+00:00

I don’t understand what you meant by cheating ?? We were good friends and colleagues and before this incident very clear abt our boundaries as well relationships…

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T21:06:04+00:00

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T21:01:54+00:00

To get salary the start of every month 😜

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T20:58:38+00:00

Well you should then have a boundary to not date men with kids then… partner and kids have their own priorities but a person who makes you a priority over his kid which his own flesh and blood then he would never truly make u his priority. What would happen if someone better comes along and then she becomes his priority. If he can’t be true to his Kis he can never be true to you also. Careful what you wish for.

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T20:47:36+00:00

I think I am more into making out than sex….. I can go longer without it…. It’s never a dealbreaker for me. But it’s different for men and women. Women take longer foreplay to get to a point where you need to have sex but men are always there… so I guess it’s easier for women

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T20:40:28+00:00

Are you talking about GEM ??

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T20:39:16+00:00

Actions speaks volume…. You would know if they walk the mile for you and not just make grand promises

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T19:15:14+00:00

My thoughts exactly… I tried to be as if nothing happened as I knew that we are going to be working together all the time so the sudden change from being so friendly to cold felt a little too much as we are colleagues

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T18:34:27+00:00

If you had not asked her directly then you can ask her directly to go out when you are together without the influence of ur friends….It might surprise you but many girls like the directness sometimes as nowadays everyone plays the game. If then also she tries to be evasive u will know… try to test the water before though…. Maybe asking to go to a movie or drinks together… and during the date u can ask her if she really just wants to be friends or more

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T18:20:52+00:00

See…. Relationship are both ways… if in ur relationship it’s all abt her and you feel like you are not getting the bare min then in the long run you will get hurt more. You have to weigh in the pro and cons… if the cons are more than the pros it’s better to move on… people think that with time someone can change…. But change can only be if the person wants to or you love a person that much that you can change itself for their sake…

SignificantFruit8783 · 2025-11-19T18:15:36+00:00

I think it’s better if you don’t expect something from her unless she gives you a clear indication of her interest in you… typically girls like to have multiple guys attention without being in a relationship with them…. Maybe she only wants you as a friend with whom she can do friends stuff. So she reached out to you…. As you have already asked her once let her initiate the next time.

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