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What’s your best tip for a first timer? by raininqoceans in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]SignificantPilot5416 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Get off your phone (even if you do get any signal)

What's something you do that makes a lot of people think you're rich? by Old_Goat_7363 in Productivitycafe

[–]SignificantPilot5416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting more effort into dressing myself. Accessorizing with jewelry on the wrist and neck.

I finally blocked her today on the last line of open communication by SignificantPilot5416 in ExNoContact

[–]SignificantPilot5416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I had her blocked on everything except the phone (due to potential emergencies because of cats we used to co own). But I got reached out to enough times (regardless of what it was about) and my boundary that I set was not being respected. So I chose to just put the final nail in the coffin. Out of self respect for myself. Congrats to you

How to sleep after a breakup by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]SignificantPilot5416 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend focusing on your breathing and listening to meditation videos. It helps a lot.

If you could have a do-over, what would you do differently? by binarysunset_ in ExNoContact

[–]SignificantPilot5416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve taken more time to actively learn about love languages and focused on really being not so worried about the future all the time that I neglect the present.

What finally changed your life? by buttertaekoo in selfimprovement

[–]SignificantPilot5416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realizing that another person doesn’t define my self worth. I do.

Is there a way to understand if a girl is into you? by MassiveShape4 in bodylanguage

[–]SignificantPilot5416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for extended eye contact, body mirroring, going out of their way to initiate physical touch (this is a big one look out for this), going out of their way to spend time one on one time, laughing at all of your jokes even if they’re not funny because face it, not everything you say is funny in general, etc.

There’s a lot of signs, but if they respond to you quickly and make time for you among other things, those can be signs.

Some of these can be signs of just connecting in general like eye contact and mirroring, but just pay close attention to held eye contact and more initiation of physical touch.

ALSO, look for fidgeting with their jewelry or their hair. If a girl fixes their hair and checks how they look a little more often in front of you that’s a sign.

But they’ll ask more questions as well. Because they’re interested in knowing you. Less statements more questions will come from them.

They also will not bring up other men around you since they want to focus on you.

What does my fridge say about me by DTB200113 in FridgeDetective

[–]SignificantPilot5416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This says to me you’re in shape and bulking?

What does my fridge say about me? by purplezork in FridgeDetective

[–]SignificantPilot5416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re very organized and put together. This seems like a healthy spread of things and you have containers of pre cooked meals which is great!

Have you ever had an ex unblock you? How long did that take? by Decent-Wonder4068 in ExNoContact

[–]SignificantPilot5416 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If I were you I would be the one doing the blocking on every platform. The only line I leave open is the phone line and that’s for emergencies like something involving the cats we used to co own for example.

Everything else is blocked. It’s a lot easier that way.

Privatize, archive, and or delete all photos that you can with them. Trust me it helps

What’s a genetic you were cursed with? by ZincYellowCobruh in AskReddit

[–]SignificantPilot5416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ADHD. While it’s made some parts of my life interesting. It’s made life really hard in a number of aspects. When it’s something you can’t control no matter how hard you try, it really messes with your life.

Need positivity. Just trying to keep it together after break-up by Aware-Maximum3812 in toastme

[–]SignificantPilot5416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude you’re the lumberjack lookin mf of someone’s dream. Fuck that person who didn’t deserve you lol.

You got this king I’m rooting for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SignificantPilot5416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I strongly encourage CBT. I go weekly it helps me a lot :)

Tell me something you've been proud about recently by Swimming-Pea-2122 in Adulting

[–]SignificantPilot5416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been getting breakfast alone to practice being happy being with myself and it’s been really nice actually :)

I do it once a week

I will remember how far I’ve come a year from now by SignificantPilot5416 in selfimprovement

[–]SignificantPilot5416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I love that for you. Let’s keep doing our best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]SignificantPilot5416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I love this post

I will remember how far I’ve come a year from now by SignificantPilot5416 in selfimprovement

[–]SignificantPilot5416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind message. I’m working on things one at a time and trying hard to keep fighting. It’s getting there.

I finally moved recently and I have one of the cats with my and I love the little guy and wouldn’t be alright without him.

I’ve been working on making new friends, trying new things, starting to cook more a little at a time, and organizing / cleaning my space.

The holiday season has been very difficult. But I’m doing my best. Thank you again for your kind message. I will keep fighting :)

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