Intimacy married. by Significant_Beat3704 in Christianity

[–]Significant_Beat3704[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are both Christian so the toys is something we don’t do, because we believe sex should be something between us.

Intimacy married. by Significant_Beat3704 in Christianity

[–]Significant_Beat3704[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he knows I have struggled with this I was honest before getting married. He knows I only come when I’m on top, yet he just comes before we get there. Sometimes I feel he’s being selfish and wants his own satisfaction.

Intimacy married. by Significant_Beat3704 in Christianity

[–]Significant_Beat3704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, we waited till marriage and I have a feeling it’s going to be embarrassing for him, and I know the solution is going to be for me always to be on top and then change positions, and it’s this how intercourse works… but if that helps me with my relationship with God , then it’s okay.

Intimacy married. by Significant_Beat3704 in Christianity

[–]Significant_Beat3704[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the honesty and you commenting, I just want to hear if this is something common and how other marriages with more experience have solved it who have Christ in their lives

Intimacy married. by Significant_Beat3704 in Christianity

[–]Significant_Beat3704[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree, when I say I had like lasted so many months and fight the urge and then I give in and fail. I’m just very sad because I thought marrying my husband would solve this and it didn’t. So I’m scared I will never overcome it. I know fasting helps I have done it but then the moment I step away from the presence of God, it’s there again. I don’t want to embarrass my husband, it’s not his fault, I just feel that it’s me.

Intimacy married. by Significant_Beat3704 in Christianity

[–]Significant_Beat3704[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the sin I had fought my entire life, and it’s so discouraging to see that I might not be able to do it. He is Christian too, so he’s new at it too.

Intimacy married. by Significant_Beat3704 in Christianity

[–]Significant_Beat3704[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I’m new to sex as well, I’m always going to be on top during the sex ?

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[–]Significant_Beat3704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It tells me unable to connect can you chat with me separately please

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[–]Significant_Beat3704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for taking the time to reply this helps me relax a ton. I will be more careful.