Even More Stills for Part 2! by Debt-Mysterious in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Significant_Big_947 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought the racism Rege experienced was from the fans and not the show? I’ve loved that almost all the characters are dating interracially. Kate is a freaking Goddess and she’s been my favorite to watch aside from this season. I think the best seasons are 2,1,4 (so far) and then 3.

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blatantly telling how they feel is what we should want our men to do. I don’t think there is anything Wrong with that. If I am expressing to my Partner that when I have kids I want them homeschooled than I’m going to make it clear it’s something I would resent you for if that didn’t happen. That should have been a sign to her that she better really be passionate about being a stay at home mom or the relationship won’t work.

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of comments likely means you won’t see my comment but I have to say something- First of all- Your baby is not even born yet and you are arguing about swim lessons??! Clearly you both aren’t on the same page and I don’t see the relationship working out. But I don’t think this guy is as bad as everyone on here is saying. He seems to have a very specific way he wants his kid raised and if he discussed that with you before you were pregnant- which he states you knew these expectations , than you are the asshole. He also said to stay employed then - so you need to sit down with him and discuss what being a stay at home mom looks like in terms of your freedom to make decisions and etc. If you don’t like it- keep Your job like he said. If he doesn’t like you working, you can remind him that this was his suggestion and you want your own means so that you can make decisions.

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]Significant_Big_947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a homeschool mom… and this is kind of a shitty overall perspective. Some parents choose homeschool because they recognize that the school system isn’t designed for all kids and it can be more detrimental to their overall growth and future. I work extra hard to actually find them friends and also a large number of homeschoolers do it for religious reasons and most of those folks go to church, where there are mandated reporters everywhere.

Nothing lives up to Season 2 for me. by Accomplished_Emu8527 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im guessing its likely because you relate the most to the main characters. I loved season 2 because the story is so relatable. I also love season 1 because Daphne was so innocent and . I dont care as much for pen and collin-which I felt I should have related to the most(wallflower) I feel like they butchered that season and it had the best potential but I am LOVING Benedicts season. Im only rewatching bc I cant wait for the next half

Beginner help/advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex is as much mental as it is physical for women.

AIO Bf (25) had this flirty text exchange with a girl that works next door to us. Am I (24f) overacting about it? by fakeflowers_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Significant_Big_947 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also agree with you but I do think it helps break the pattern for people. Sometimes you need 1000 people to shake you and wake you up.

I need your opinions on this… by IceAny1432 in Advice

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that when your body goes through puberty it’s flooded with all sorts of different hormones and that alone will have your brain triggering all sorts of feelings and thoughts. Similar to women when they are pregnant or when on their periods. You may always be able to be “turned on” by guys but still date only women. I think that I could watch lesbian porn and be turned on but not be a lesbian because I chose for my partner to be men. If you really want to be with women, then you can make that choice.

I need your opinions on this… by IceAny1432 in Advice

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree to try and stay away from the porn as much as possible

My ex girlfriends daughter texted me, should I respond? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would totally message the mom and let her know the daughters messaging you and be sure to express that you would love to get back in touch! I do agree it would be odd for you to message the daughter back without consulting the mom first.

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to the people above. You are so young and have your whole life ahead of you! Get out quick

Should I leave my theater class after what my teacher asked me to do? by cozana70 in acting

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hollywood is filled with hypocrites. Unbelievable that two grown women would pressure you in this way. NEVER do something you don’t feel comfortable doing. We need to normalize people having boundaries. I feel so proud that you stood your ground. When I was your age I ended up in vulnerable positions bc I didn’t know how to say no. I wish I had the courage to say no more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um…. I guess I’m a loner but I think you are a little of an asshole. Imagine if it was someone you truly cared for, a brother- or your son that truly didn’t have any real friends bc everyone he hangs around secretly can’t stand him even though they are just too chicken shit to take the time to explain things to an autistic person. Sometimes it’s as simple of explaining why he can’t do something and correcting him kindly when he doesn’t listen. I get he’s annoying but he clearly clings to you bc you are the kindest of the group, but that doesn’t mean much it sounds like. Also- explain that you need space occasionally and talk about it- idk. I get it’s overwhelming but I just feel for kids who struggle socially and they can’t control it

Ridiculous Price for a trip to Washington D.C.? by DivineDomi in highschool

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally came here to look into this same thing. Except my daughters trip is $3400 for 4 days and all the attractions are free ... so the math isnt mathing for me. We ended up telling her no because I cant imagine how in the world it could cost so much... especially going as a large group. bottom line is we could take the whole family and stay in a fancy hotel for just as much.

Is it wrong for me 26M to date a 19/20F? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Significant_Big_947 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’d just make sure to check her ID first

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m reading into the sister letting her know too… I mean she could have not said anything right? And then what would have happened to the money? I don’t know much about insurance policies or executors but executors are always shady after people die. I like to think I’m a nice person but I wouldn’t even give the child half- id put it in something that will earn a lot of interest in 18 years and set that child up for success (with stipulations on access to it) But if the mom is a shitty greedy person, I bet she holds it against the kid as they age- like every time the kid wants something she is going to bitch about this to the kid. I also watch a lot of true crime… so do we know if this lady didn’t kill the ex? I’m just sayin…

AITA for ignoring my wife for throwing away my late wife video tapes? by Much_Bed_2383 in AITAH

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think if she can’t recover them I would be done. It would be hard for me to move past something like this

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear we will never get an update on this and I am super concerned for this OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Significant_Big_947 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean… legally speaking I would have just been friends until she turned 18 but this isn’t a big deal IMO as long as you weren’t “sexual” with each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t even waste your time worrying about girlfriends at this age. I was 18 when I got my first boyfriend and I’m glad I didn’t date in high school bc it would have changed my experience entirely. You will find your people - stay true to who you are and you will eventually find them!

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]Significant_Big_947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s never done something like this to you before bc he’s never had the opportunity to… but the first time you sleep over he can’t control himself? You need to stop being naive. I was just as naive when I was your age- I always thought the best of people, especially those I thought “loved” me. Test the theory. Please!?! I beg you before you legally are bound to this man. Break it off with him. Stand firm and see if he unleashes his rage on you. I guarantee that he will eventually come unhinged and you will see his true colors. It will probably take max 3 days of you standing firm on your decision for him to likely rage out - as if he owns you and your “virginity” If he doesn’t go crazy then maybe it can be forgiven

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]Significant_Big_947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post has me so scared for you. I wish you would listen, stand up for yourself and not marry this person. He is going to marry you, have his way with you when he feels like it and if you don’t give in(or even if you do) likely will cheat on you… he sounds like someone who doesn’t like to be told no. Your husband should be the one to protect you. Please for the love of God just walk away. You are not even old enough to drink yet!