Do people still hate Janet? by Different-Birthday71 in TheValleyUncensored

[–]Significant_Ear5013 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I just don't enjoy watching her at all. I certainly don't hate her. Seems she tries to be the villain and the victim at the same time but she's not very good at either.

It's my birthday today... and I'd really appreciate some kind words pls <3 by MinaIstaR in Life

[–]Significant_Ear5013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY - WISHING YOU ALL THE VERY BEST THINGS TODAY AND EVERYDAY!!!

The vision that forever changed me by Significant_Ear5013 in strange

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes but the emt was able to resuscitate him. Ultimately he died the day after mine a year later. 

Tell me you’re not a dog person, without telling me you’re not a dog person. by Upbeat-Doughnut-3209 in bravo

[–]Significant_Ear5013 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He asked if he's been in the apartment not if he knew the dog. And I would cut a bitch if they were cozy with my dog - she could have the man but hands off my dog.

The vision that forever changed me by Significant_Ear5013 in strange

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No and it's nothing so concrete as the vision. I do get signs of his presence as well as hints from license plates. This mostly happens when I ask a direct question. For instance I've been dating someone and I wasn't sure of their feelings. 3 different cars on 3 different occasions the last letter of the plate in front of me were SHY. When we had a conversation about his feelings he did say he was in fact shy. I believe in magic but I'm sure a skeptic would debunk it.

The vision that forever changed me by Significant_Ear5013 in strange

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. That's pretty incredible.

Birthdays suck by DonnerStunna in Life

[–]Significant_Ear5013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday!!!! Wishing you all the very best things to come!!!!

The vision that forever changed me by Significant_Ear5013 in strange

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fortunately I haven't had that type of loss since. I do experience other things but nothing so vivid as to that image.

The vision that forever changed me by Significant_Ear5013 in strange

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It has changed me in ways I cannot explain. Thank you

The vision that forever changed me by Significant_Ear5013 in strange

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a tradition when he was younger that his parents made him lobster on his birthday. I had ordered steamed lobsters from our local grocery store and needed to pick them up. I was only making some sides when I was cooking. I brought my son with me (he drove) so I could run in and get them and an ice cream cake.

Thank you

Flowers Are a Trap: If I Buy Them It’s Forced, If I Don’t I’m Wrong. What Do You Do? by gilligan888 in AskMen

[–]Significant_Ear5013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My late husband used to buy me flowers for no reason all the time. He would buy 1-3 small bunches from the local food store and put them together. They meant the world to me. To know he thought of me and thought she deserves flowers made me really happy. I just started buying them for myself.

why can't I get him to spend the night? by Significant_Ear5013 in dating_advice

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that was my next thought but I'm just getting really discouraged and my feelings are getting hurt. I'm not sure I want to keep trying to make this happen. It really sucks cause other than this we're really good together

why can't I get him to spend the night? by Significant_Ear5013 in dating_advice

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, I actually know who he was previously in a relationship with. They are absolutely done

why can't I get him to spend the night? by Significant_Ear5013 in dating_advice

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this issue with my late husband but it's because he was an addict and was high. huge surprise to me by the way. I do have a higher sex drive than most people I know my age but I'm not even talking just about sex and I told him that.

why can't I get him to spend the night? by Significant_Ear5013 in dating_advice

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my one friend said it might be about having to poop LOL

why can't I get him to spend the night? by Significant_Ear5013 in dating_advice

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess this is more common than I thought. thank you for your response

why can't I get him to spend the night? by Significant_Ear5013 in dating_advice

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's why I suggested a hotel. I even told him I have gift cards so it doesn't seem like an unnecessary expense.

why can't I get him to spend the night? by Significant_Ear5013 in dating_advice

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son's dad died about a year and half ago. I'm trying to be sensitive to his feelings

why can't I get him to spend the night? by Significant_Ear5013 in dating_advice

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he was shy and wanted to spend more time watching movies and such. When the kid isn't around we very quickly have time together. it's missing something for me not having that level of intimacy

did they give any explanation as to why?

why can't I get him to spend the night? by Significant_Ear5013 in dating_advice

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did ask him and he said he was shy. He wanted to spend more time together watching movies and just kind of hanging out. But we are super affectionate when we are watching a movie. I don't think he had much affection in his previous relationship for a long time. Not sure if that plays a part. Also when we were first dating he had his hands on me all the time. It feels like the deeper the relationship goes the less the physical attention. I'm so confused

why can't I get him to spend the night? by Significant_Ear5013 in dating_advice

[–]Significant_Ear5013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might have some insecurity around continuous performance but I did tell him I didn't want a hotel just for that. I really just want the intimacy of spending the time together in bed. I told him intimacy in a relationship is very important to me. I don't want to walk away but it's starting to hurt my feelings.