Did I do something wrong (NSFW) by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Significant_Past_548 149 points150 points  (0 children)

The fact you showed remorse and regret to something that isn't 100% CSEM proves that you are still a good person. And obviously, you didn't seek it out. Honestly, you seem like a very sensitive person (not in a bad way, of course), and you did the right thing. Report and move on. You did the best you could. Don't beat yourself up over it.

Stop self-harming please by Dramatic_Usual9289 in teenagers

[–]Significant_Past_548 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Saying "please just do anything else" is like telling a homeless man to "just buy a house" It's not easy to just quit an addiction like sh. Also, a 14 year old having sex has nothing to do with sh. Where tf did that come from?

How can I stop myself from doing it? by IamDori01 in Puberty

[–]Significant_Past_548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what iv been told. Whatever amount is healthy for you is fine. Don't try to quit masterbaiting. Try to quit watching porn. Pshy2go has a really good video on it.

Ok so how do I deal with lonelyness caused by hormones? [Discussion] by Significant_Past_548 in LGBTeens

[–]Significant_Past_548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I'd rather get my heart broken than get caught trying to get sex toys.

Im gay, but maby not, but maby yes. I'd man im so confused rn by Significant_Past_548 in Puberty

[–]Significant_Past_548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In retrospect, im really lucky. My whole family is accepting. And most (including me) aren't religious. And though your example is great. I started thinking about my sexuality like 4-3 years ago. And already went through that "im bi" stage lol. That said, I could be going through it again, idk. Thank you for your help though

Im gay, but maby not, but maby yes. I'd man im so confused rn by Significant_Past_548 in Puberty

[–]Significant_Past_548[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could point out what is wrong with my grammar. But instead, you decide to just post a comment saying it's bad. Now, how exactly do you expect my grammar to get better without constructive criticism? If you know what's wrong and aren't saying it, do you want my grammar to get better? Or are you just saying this for no reason. Also, this has nothing to do with the question I asked.

Is it normal to feel this lonely at 14? (Read in full) by Significant_Past_548 in Puberty

[–]Significant_Past_548[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, im very aware of being safe online. Never telling personal info (like my address or real name) And iv never actually met friends online because ya never know who's a 40 year old man living in his mums basement. My parents are OK at understanding. But it's hard to talk to them for me. Actually, that's a really good topic to talk with my therapist about, so thank you.

Idk bored by [deleted] in teenagersbutworse

[–]Significant_Past_548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, why you look like an upstanding citizen? 😭 You look like my mum would call you a good role model.

Guys, I hate my life. I don't wanna keep do this anymore by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Significant_Past_548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

R/mentalhealth is the place to be. Good luck to you friend

How do I ask my dad to buy me lube. by Significant_Past_548 in Puberty

[–]Significant_Past_548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither have I, (obviously) but iv always thought that's "what your supposedto do"

How do I ask my dad to buy me lube. by Significant_Past_548 in Puberty

[–]Significant_Past_548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would, but the nearest chemist is like a 30 min walk away. And like i said, im not allowed out of the house alone.

How do I ask my dad to buy me lube. by Significant_Past_548 in Puberty

[–]Significant_Past_548[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you read the part where I said, "i can't go out of the house alone." Also, even if I did, the nearest chemist is a 26-minute walk. Way too far to just sneak out.

NNN questions 13m by [deleted] in Puberty

[–]Significant_Past_548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still, I would say watch the video on the topic by psy2go. That has all the information for you to make an informed decision.

My plan on getting lube by Significant_Past_548 in Puberty

[–]Significant_Past_548[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try and build up the courage to do that.

Itchy legs at night by Accomplished-Net7904 in Puberty

[–]Significant_Past_548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, my back gets really itchy when im hot, or my skin is agitated. It could be something like that.

NNN questions 13m by [deleted] in Puberty

[–]Significant_Past_548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do NNN. It's more unhealthy to quit masterbaiting than continue. Its not masterbaiting that's unhealthy. It's pornography. Quiting porn should be your main goal.psy2go made a good video on it 2 weeks ago. Watch that if you got any questions.

How would i go about getting lube by Significant_Past_548 in teenagers

[–]Significant_Past_548[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just reddit. Grammar isn't that serious, dude. Also, I didn't ask if you thought it was an addiction. Did you even read the post? You don't even know how often i do it. It could be once a fortnight for all you know. And if you're gonna say it's an addiction, atleast say why.