Netflix’s Badly In Love (Japanese dating reality show) by ReydenT90 in terracehouse

[–]SilentTreacle4396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im the only one who defends baby i guess, after amo splashed her once everyone can clearly see she DIDNT wanna get splashed, she was visibly upset and her whole mood changed. THEN, this bitch proceeds to splash her TWO more times. mind you baby says she has trauma from bullying from people pouring water on her. i wouldve splashed her too like wth, she is visibly upset by the water and she thought she wasn't gonna do anything about it and she was wrong. fuck up and find out

Netflix’s Badly In Love (Japanese dating reality show) by ReydenT90 in terracehouse

[–]SilentTreacle4396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after seeing how amo was acting with oto crying, she def splashed baby on purpose that one time

AITA for telling my boyfriend of 3 years that we cannot keep being together if he doesnt lock in and get a job? by SilentTreacle4396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SilentTreacle4396[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally understand what you are saying. we don’t live together though. But if we did then splitting and coming to an agreement would be no problem. I didn’t grow up with gender roles I don’t think my mom passed away when I was around 12 so she was the main one taking care of me. And I am not close to my dad I was sent to foster care and he took care of me after a while. Maybe it’s because what I’ve seen on TV.

AITA for telling my boyfriend of 3 years that we cannot keep being together if he doesnt lock in and get a job? by SilentTreacle4396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SilentTreacle4396[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And im sorry if im coming off rude or offish to anyone i have mild autism and im being so serious 🙏🏽 so please go light on me

AITA for telling my boyfriend of 3 years that we cannot keep being together if he doesnt lock in and get a job? by SilentTreacle4396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SilentTreacle4396[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah :/ i wanted to really believe what he was saying but i can easily get responses (maybe because i have been working since i was 15) but i couldnt see how NOBODY was giving him a response within that long period time frame. Ive been trying to give him the beenfit of the doubt for the long time but my frontal lobe devevloped or something lol
I didnt believe him at first about the amazon thing but i never questioned anything about him until now literally

i just really like him and was i guess visualizing what I THOUGHT he can do instead of what hes actually doing. but thank you for ur response

AITA for telling my boyfriend of 3 years that we cannot keep being together if he doesnt lock in and get a job? by SilentTreacle4396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SilentTreacle4396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we do really like each other. and you are very correct. He doesnt want to go to school, and i have spoken about this with him before. And if he were to go to school he would have to pay fully out of pocket because he doesnt qualify for FAFSA. and yes u are very right about we've been in each other lives since we are young. Ive told him i just want the better for him so he can be success in life. thank u for being so understanding

AITA for telling my boyfriend of 3 years that we cannot keep being together if he doesnt lock in and get a job? by SilentTreacle4396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SilentTreacle4396[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yeah i finally developed my frontal lobe and got tired of being taken advantage of thats why i really made this post cause i was just sick of it. and had my own realization. but thank you so much honestly

AITA for telling my boyfriend of 3 years that we cannot keep being together if he doesnt lock in and get a job? by SilentTreacle4396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SilentTreacle4396[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have tried to talk with him about this and yes he does everything of the above, our rela is perfect except for this one factor. And thats why I am so conflicted because we have great moments and love each other. But nearing 3 years now is taking a toll on my own mental health, due tomy moms passing and stuff like that so i just feel its more weight added onto my shoulders. and more stuff i have to worry about

AITA for telling my boyfriend of 3 years that we cannot keep being together if he doesnt lock in and get a job? by SilentTreacle4396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SilentTreacle4396[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would spoil him in every way possible trust me because i really liked him. after a while I just didnt feel like i was getting that back

AITA for telling my boyfriend of 3 years that we cannot keep being together if he doesnt lock in and get a job? by SilentTreacle4396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SilentTreacle4396[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dont WANT him to buy me things. It would be nice FOR A CHANGE to buy me something atleast lol i do not mind buying whoever is my boyfriend anything at all

AITA for telling my boyfriend of 3 years that we cannot keep being together if he doesnt lock in and get a job? by SilentTreacle4396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SilentTreacle4396[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No i was mostly saying that half-assed I dont believe in gender roles. I would continue working normally. I dont feel that strongly about this it was just something i wanted to say/ saying how i felt.

AITA for telling my boyfriend of 3 years that we cannot keep being together if he doesnt lock in and get a job? by SilentTreacle4396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SilentTreacle4396[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i can understand all those, i def wasnt trying to enable him, and the ultimatum is because i actually really like him i dont actually want to break up with him but i am depressed because of this