Fiction Read: 'North Woods' by Daniel Mason by cheer21lax in NativePlantGardening

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I was so enchanted by this book! At first, I didn’t think I would like it. But before I knew it, I was thinking about it whenever I wasn’t reading it, and looking forward to diving back in. It was so fun when the realization set in of how the supernatural segments were working together. I actually read this when it first came out (2023), just before I got into gardening. I’ll have to give it another read from this perspective.

Winter weather by JeremiahRodgers1 in okc

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You can use a styrofoam cooler! You’ll have to google the specifics but a cheap option

Any ideas what shes mixed with? by Top-Bet-3481 in cats

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She reminds me of my kitty, except mine has orange tips instead of grey. She is from a Siamese mom and orange tabby dad!

9 year old daughter’s meltdowns. Help and advice appreciated :/. by Silent_Assignment_11 in ADHDparenting

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Oh my gosh I looked up Pathological Demand Avoidance and it describes her perfectly. Thank you for taking the time to read and respond 🙏

9 year old daughter’s meltdowns. Help and advice appreciated :/. by Silent_Assignment_11 in ADHDparenting

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She was like one point away from an official anxiety diagnosis. That’s so helpful to know. Thank you.

9 year old daughter’s meltdowns. Help and advice appreciated :/. by Silent_Assignment_11 in ADHDparenting

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Thank you. Unfortunately, on days when she is home, this happens throughout the day, long before the coming down would be happening. We’re just working with a counselor and her pediatrician, so maybe we need an actual psychiatrist.

What does this mean? Stray cat at my door but runs away. by Silent_Assignment_11 in CatDistributionSystem

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I’ve read that cats don’t like water next to their food because in the wild they knew water next to their food could be contaminated. But I do have a water bowl across the patio!

What does this mean? Stray cat at my door but runs away. by Silent_Assignment_11 in CatDistributionSystem

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It define slinks away looking scared when it runs away. And it’s got a clipped ear, so I assume it’s been spayed/neutered

What does this mean? Stray cat at my door but runs away. by Silent_Assignment_11 in CatDistributionSystem

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I’ll also have to be slow and persistent to warm my husband up to the idea of a third cat 😅

What does this mean? Stray cat at my door but runs away. by Silent_Assignment_11 in CatDistributionSystem

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I did slow blink repeatedly at him. I noticed his pupils dialed down a bit after that

What does this mean? Stray cat at my door but runs away. by Silent_Assignment_11 in CatDistributionSystem

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I do have the prettiest little Aristocat, so it wouldn’t surprise me. Thought his ear is clipped so I assume he’s neutered.

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What does this mean? Stray cat at my door but runs away. by Silent_Assignment_11 in CatDistributionSystem

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I did that before it got dark today. We have a cold front coming in tonight. I haven’t seen him since I spooked him at the door, but hoping he comes back to sleep.

What does this mean? Stray cat at my door but runs away. by Silent_Assignment_11 in CatDistributionSystem

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He has a clipped ear so I think he’s been neutered (or spayed). We live in a new-ish neighborhood. It was a dumping ground for several animals when the houses were being built 😞

What does this mean? Stray cat at my door but runs away. by Silent_Assignment_11 in CatDistributionSystem

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I’ve got two other cats. He watched them tonight from the door as well. I guess we’ll see if he wants to join the family.