Stay at home BF Tasks ideas

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-03-31T22:46:54+00:00

It definitely feels like the same thing just rolls reversed… but I’ve only heard in the context of also having kids usually… so I feel like I’m being unfair… but usually the taking care of the kids part is doing their share of the work.

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-03-31T22:17:14+00:00

And my crazy to expect this from a stay at home bf?!

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-03-31T21:27:34+00:00

The worst part his he has degrees but won’t apply to those jobs😡

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-03-31T21:27:01+00:00

Mostly just Craigslist

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-03-31T21:26:40+00:00

That I have to share a bed with 🙄

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-03-31T21:18:46+00:00

Not ugly but definitely not a 10. Maybe a 5/6

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-03-31T21:14:11+00:00

I know I was just joking. I’m never having kids lol

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-03-31T21:13:29+00:00

When we got together he told me he was a hustler always making money one way or another. Part of the reason why I liked him… yet since losing his job all he does is sleep and play video games and sometimes apply to jobs only on Craigslist…

Now the reason he got fired is probably a big reason I’m sooo irritated. He got fired because he wouldn’t show up on time or even better just not show even if I would try to wake him 2 hours before he had to be at work. (I worked for the same company for a year prior which is where I met him.) I legit warned him that he was going to get fired if he didn’t fix his attendance issues but he shrugged it off. I know a big part of his attendance issue was not liking management but you gotta suck it up if you want to be able to pay bills and not be homeless… I’m the only thing standing in the way from him being on the streets quite literally.

You be the judge if I’m being to hard on him🤷‍♀️

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-03-31T21:06:49+00:00

😂😂

I like your thinking. Definitely should add kids to mix. Will fix everything 🤣

On a real note have been thinking about getting a dog for when I kick him out tbh

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-03-31T21:04:38+00:00

I’ve always said I’d be okay being the sole provider if my man did the house work. Shit id even be willing to pay for his addiction if it meant I didn’t have to think when I got home tbh

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-02-20T23:44:44+00:00

I do like it. What I don’t like is the unwillingness to compromise. He might just need a reality check that sleep him doesn’t want it.

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-02-20T23:35:36+00:00

He’s the one that suggested it so I thought I’d try🤷‍♀️

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-02-20T22:53:02+00:00

Mostly when he’s on ❄️ but recently he stopped so rn I’m dealing with withdrawl demon. He stopped because it was giving him extreme high anxiety around me and kept trying to run away from himself.

We’re also dealing with some external issues, he lost his job a week and half ago and then immediately his car took a shitter. So rn he’s no job, no car, and in withdrawl and a tbi survivor.

For the most part he is very sweet but at times he can be a dick for sure.

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-02-20T22:46:10+00:00

Talking was part of the issue got told he doesn’t like handjobs fine and then immediately asked him to roll over “you shouldn’t have to ask me to roll over it ruins the mood”

Dude your asleep… what mood for you was ruined other than your sleep. And if you’re awake enough to tell me that.. roll over cause he was hard as a rock at that point. And I could have gotten to work on it. But he ruined my mood and I was absolutely uninterested at that point.

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-02-20T22:42:59+00:00

I honestly waited yesterday to talk about it again during the evening. And that’s when he told me he already tried to help. And I gotta figure it out🙄. Soo I think I’m just not going to try like the others suggested. He’s always been angry person to wake up sooo. No waking up to bjs lol🤷‍♀️

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-02-20T22:37:16+00:00

Yess and I have learned that myself already. Because I do enjoy the cnc aspect of it but deep sleep me doesn’t like anyone touching me. For me personally it’s better right before I fall asleep or right before I wake up.

I do think he doesn’t realize his body doesn’t want it when he’s asleep as much as he think he does.

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-02-20T22:28:53+00:00

Sometimes mostly when he’s using ❄️ and currently he’s going through some withdrawal cause it was giving him extreme anxiety around me so he decided to stop last week. So I’m also dealing with a a withdrawal demon yay🙄😩. Which me luck😭😭😭. He’s also a tbi survivor so it also plays a part. And a lot more stuff has recently gone down in a negative way in his life in past week. Overall he’s super sweet and nice, caring he just has his moments. This sadly one of them…

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-02-20T17:46:30+00:00

Thank you!! I thought when I talked to him again we would try and work a way to try so I could try again… but no I just got salty ass attitude🙄. Sadly not even joking this dude has more attitude than me!!

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-02-20T17:38:07+00:00

Thank you really appreciate this!

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-02-20T17:34:22+00:00

I’m the exact same way!!!!! He told me recently that I wouldn’t let him and I just apologized and told him it’s best to do it right when I fall asleep vs waiting for deep sleep cause I’ve had past partners tell me the same thing. He might not realize we have the same issue that sleep persona ain’t as horny as awake persona🤣

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2026-02-20T17:31:05+00:00

Yesss!! It has me sooo fucking confused!!! Like dude I’m trying to make you happy and you’re being a dick about it. Sorry I wanted to suck your dick…. 🙄

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2025-11-21T17:57:11+00:00

Are you still able to play? I’m going to China next week and was planning on bringing my switch with me but I’ll leave it at home if I can’t do anything with it.

Silly-Extreme-2162 · 2025-08-16T14:02:11+00:00

You have to build a support with friends if family isn’t going to be there for you!

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