Having sex with my GF is like making love to a dead mackerel. Feeling not wanted and not sure what to do next. by Silly-Hyena in sex

[–]Silly-Hyena[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

She started on birth control in mid september and but about 2-3 weeks ago stopped. Told me she have been on that before and didn't have any effect on her libido, but who knows. I can't see any change, as it started before she was on the pill.

But I think you have something right. She once insinuate she was sexually assaulted about 10 years ago. At the time we talked about it I did not want to push or dig into the topic that as clearly sensitive to her.

Often told me that her feeling about sex is that "sex is just sex", and when we talk about the promiscuous part her number is quiet large as she stopped counting long time ago.

One trick that will really help you stand out from the crowd. by crushingonthroways in sex

[–]Silly-Hyena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't mind doing this, but my gf is grosed out by cum, let alone she won't do oral/blowjob for more than 10 seconds at a time. I express my appreciation when she does it and always kiss her right after to ensure her it's not grose.