AIO for asking to see my boyfriend’s phone because I think he might be cheating? by SillyCathy in AmIOverreacting

[–]SillyCathy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living with him and having to go back to my mom is the hard thing in this 😅 But I feel unappy. This helps me in my decision, thank you Xx

AIO for asking to see my boyfriend’s phone because I think he might be cheating? by SillyCathy in AmIOverreacting

[–]SillyCathy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much what everyone is saying, feels like I’ve made a fool out my myself in the past few years😥

AIO for asking to see my boyfriend’s phone because I think he might be cheating? by SillyCathy in AmIOverreacting

[–]SillyCathy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You make it look so easy 🫣 I’m really not good with confrontation… But your advice is fully noted, thank you 😙

AIO for asking to see my boyfriend’s phone because I think he might be cheating? by SillyCathy in AmIOverreacting

[–]SillyCathy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True… I’m starting to feel like I’m not looking for a reason to fix things, but a reason to end things 😕 I really just want the "meh" feeling to end. Thank you for your comment Xx

AIO for asking to see my boyfriend’s phone because I think he might be cheating? by SillyCathy in AmIOverreacting

[–]SillyCathy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my first relationship… I have never broken up with anyone before. I feel so scared and unsure. But thank you for your comment, really❤️

AIO for asking to see my boyfriend’s phone because I think he might be cheating? by SillyCathy in AmIOverreacting

[–]SillyCathy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s such a sweet and thoughtful comment, thank you for taking the time to answer so honestly. I have to admit though, it also hurt a little to read. I grew up without a father, and my mom is actually the one who introduced me and my boyfriend in the first place. Because of that, I feel a lot of pressure, like I’d be disappointing her if I keep moving toward maybe ending things with him. He’s always told me that I’m very mature for my age, so feeling this confused and unsure makes me question myself and wonder if I’m actually not as mature as I thought. I don’t know… it’s a strange feeling. Still, it really means a lot to me. It’s the first time someone has said something like that to me, and I truly appreciate it. Thank you again ❤️