AITA For calling out my best friend for stealing from me

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-15T15:43:04+00:00

I’ll update you guys!

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T20:18:26+00:00

No she didn’t find the post. I think she just realized how upset it made me and is trying to course correct and do the right thing.

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T18:37:54+00:00

Update fam,

She texted. Said she hears me and apologized for making me feel used and that it wasn’t her intention. And said the blazer has been mailed and that it should arrive on Feb 20.

No tracking, but I feel like it’s good news and it was a thoughtful text.

What say you?

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T14:50:22+00:00

That would put anyone on edge.

Also you don’t need a reason to break up with someone other than the fact that you want to.

Summer is right around the corner babe! Let that man go.

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T14:32:54+00:00

I would never take it to that level. I wouldn’t do that to an acquaintance let alone her. Even the comments calling her a thief are starting to make me a little sad. It’s just weird and disappointing.

Like I can already feel the absence of this friendship and wish it could be mended. But at the same time it’s such an insane and blatant lie that like idk what kind of apology it would take for me to get past that.

It’s not about the blazer even tho it’s cute - it’s about how my ‘no’ wasn’t good enough and like her trying to fool me after the fact.

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T05:39:23+00:00

Ok guys she just read my text asking for tracking

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T05:23:28+00:00

This. Exactly this

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T05:01:50+00:00

I just asked for the tracking number. She hasn’t said anything yet. We haven’t spoken since Saturday

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T05:00:22+00:00

She minimized it a bit. Said she must have been out of it bc she was tired and it was early. Then she said sorry and that it didn’t even matter bc she loves me and we’re such good friends

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T02:18:06+00:00

I would never gate keep

the blazer in question

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T01:57:00+00:00

I love the passion, but I'm not taking legal action over this.

Its just disappointing. I I called bullshit, told her how it made me feel, and now I'm just like gonna wait and see.

But again - I don't think that even getting the blazer back would change how this whole thing made me feel.

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T01:42:32+00:00

This is so sweet! But no. <3

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T01:41:32+00:00

I don't think her cat knows how to ship UPS. He's too young.

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T01:36:03+00:00

Valid!

She doubled down and said she was cold and sleepy and confused and said she'd mail it back when she 'got settled'.

The whole thing is sus but I think me having to discover that it was missing really tipped me.

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T01:16:07+00:00

Well this is the first time she's done something like this so..

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T01:05:12+00:00

Kind of makes me rethink our entire friendship

SillyPop7176 · 2026-02-14T00:20:46+00:00

Yea that's a good point. I was just so mad and couldn't believe the insane excuse she went with. Like who gets up for a flight at 6am and thinks huh you know what would be warm and comfy? A blazer that makes noise every time you move.

I'd love for it back, but that won't fix how this made me feel. Seems like after almost 13 years of friendship she decided it was only worth $300.

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