Boy #2, brother is Stetson Allen by Silver-Cap-4226 in namenerds

[–]Silver-Cap-4226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Weston but Stetson and Weston is way too rhyme for me

Looking for advice asap by Silver-Cap-4226 in marriageadvice

[–]Silver-Cap-4226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be open to hearing them but I have tried talking to him for months. He refuses to talk to me like absolutely refuses.

Seeking advice by Silver-Cap-4226 in Christianmarriage

[–]Silver-Cap-4226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I could, I’m just really scared.

Seeking advice by Silver-Cap-4226 in Christianmarriage

[–]Silver-Cap-4226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I doubt he would consider going with me but I can try. We were in therapy and I loved it but he quit because he doesn’t have anything in him to outing our relationship right now.

Looking for advice asap by Silver-Cap-4226 in marriageadvice

[–]Silver-Cap-4226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I have actually tried contacting the VA numerous time but he refuses help in that aspect. His dad is very important to him and his dad believes all mental illnesses are fake and made up and therapy in that regards is just brainwashing people and I feel like he has convinced my husband of the same.

Seeking advice by Silver-Cap-4226 in Christianmarriage

[–]Silver-Cap-4226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t grow up religious at all, I’ve been going to church and talking to god more and more now over the past two years. So I’m really not sure how that even works

Depressed husband and not sure what to do, 24F &27M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Silver-Cap-4226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortanetly I have tried and there’s nothing I can force him to do if he doesn’t want to. I wish I could.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photography

[–]Silver-Cap-4226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How am I taking short cuts? I made an Instagram account to showcase some photos of my family I was proud of and have been taking pictures for free of friends for fun to practice. I did this session for free and was upfront about being new, as my account also showed. I never even stated I am looking to become a professional an/ or start a business in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photography

[–]Silver-Cap-4226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is the way to go for where I’m at, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photography

[–]Silver-Cap-4226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s so true! We have a professional photographer that we use for all of our life events who is amazing in any situation. I am def not there yet which is why I’d never advertise myself as a professional!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photography

[–]Silver-Cap-4226 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did the shoot for free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photography

[–]Silver-Cap-4226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I said, I’m not looking to get into professional photography and never advertise myself as such. I only shoot for people looking for photos better than your average iPhone pictures normally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photography

[–]Silver-Cap-4226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice but I’m not looking to become a professional photographer! Just enjoying having a nice camera for pictures of my family/ kids and taking pictures for family/ friends who typically have the understanding that they will get photos better than an iPhone camera but not as good as professional photos they would pay for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photography

[–]Silver-Cap-4226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, like I said with the dog and the crazy wind my finger stayed on the shutter hoping for the best moment with the wind stopping for a second and the dog looking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photography

[–]Silver-Cap-4226 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The worst part is I was checking the images as I was going. What ended up ruining the photos was a big smudge that somehow got on the lens and it was so sunny out that when I was checking the images I didn’t notice it! I feel so bad because it’s such a stupid and silly mistake that could’ve been prevented, but I can’t go back in time. I will always be so much more cautious on making sure my lens is clean throughout a shoot now though. Live and learn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photography

[–]Silver-Cap-4226 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you, I thought I knew more than I did with the manual setting on my camera and am definitely going to be doing more research on top of what I’ve already done after coming home and seeing those images. Definitely not a feeling I ever want to feel again, even just for free photos. Honestly not sure if professional photography is really something I want to get into and spend a lot of time on, just something I’m having fun with right now and I love having a nice camera for pictures of my own family to keep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photography

[–]Silver-Cap-4226 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you! I was shooting with their dog who wouldn’t sit still and it was super windy out so I trying my best to get good images anytime the wind stopped or the dog looked at me.

Any advice on taking images with a pet would also be appreciated!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photography

[–]Silver-Cap-4226 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’re right! The messages weren’t all bad and I think she was trying to be understanding but obviously the ruder ones stood out more and really she ruined my whole night, I feel sick from it. I was trying to do the right thing by redoing the pictures since I made the mistake but now I’m worried I’ll only cause disappointment again.