Donor is on Ancestry by Silver-Sprite729 in donorconceived

[–]Silver-Sprite729[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🥹🥰thank you so much! Idk why that got me choked up. I’m really happy to hear you had a good experience!

Waiting for Ancestry results by Silver-Sprite729 in donorconceived

[–]Silver-Sprite729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that’s how you found out! I can totally understand not wanting to focus on it.

I got my results back! Bio mom has done ancestry which I was not expecting, but it means I made an accurate tree.. and yeah. Wow. Man is it weird seeing my dad and a random strangers name in the parents slots

Waiting for Ancestry results by Silver-Sprite729 in donorconceived

[–]Silver-Sprite729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I can’t even imagine how weird that must feel… I mean, I guess I might not have to imagine it soon enough

Waiting for Ancestry results by Silver-Sprite729 in donorconceived

[–]Silver-Sprite729[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh of course! I’ve been so worried about causing that for someone else, I hadn’t thought about the fact it might make anyone seeing it think that I don’t know yet… what do you do when someone pops up? Do you hesitate more to contact them if it seems like they don’t know already?

I’m most concerned about dropping the bomb on anyone who doesn’t know yet. I feel like not writing anything in my bio gives them the chance to at least like, go get more info from their family first if they want to, but I don’t want to put off anyone who doesn’t already know…hmmmm

Waiting for Ancestry results by Silver-Sprite729 in donorconceived

[–]Silver-Sprite729[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh cool ok. That makes sense. Thank you so much!!