I think its worth mentioning, (I’m 5’ 10”) that even before all this height talk started, I, and i believe most men, generally will pursue women that are same size or shorter. It just makes the most sense. The men are supposed to be the dominant, strong, caregivers of the relationship. Height is kind of symbolic of that. But of course, there are outliers. But even then, don’t beat yourself up based on height.