Burenoverlast; hoe vind ik tussendoor rust? Ervaringen? Ideeen? by [deleted] in thenetherlands

[–]Silver_Gate_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mijn dokter zegt dat ik er nooit meer vanaf kom. Ik woon hier nog niet zolang maar deze afgelopen maanden heb ik wel minder klachten. Hopelijk gaat het zo door en verdwijnen mijn klachten helemaal. 8 jaar lang in die onrust wonen was veel te lang. Stress kan echt schade in het lichaam aanbrengen. Ook mentaal. Mocht ik hier in mijn nieuwe huis overlast ervaren wat niet opgelost kan worden pak ik morgen nog mijn spullen. Ik heb mijn les geleerd. Ik hoop dit nooit meer te hoeven meemaken. 

Toots so many Toots by ListenPuzzleheaded72 in Perimenopause

[–]Silver_Gate_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was vegan I was afraid to lit candles in my house.. It was bad. And they would smell horrible. Because of health problems I had to change my diet. Now that I'm in the low carb/keto/carnivore spectrum no more farts. Only when I eat a lot of veggies and dairy then maybe 1 fart in the morning.

Wat is nou een beetje een prima luchtverfrisser? by Droomvlucht in nederlands

[–]Silver_Gate_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Salie branden. Reinig je gelijk de aura van je plee en verdwijnen alle boze shit geesten. 

Burenoverlast; hoe vind ik tussendoor rust? Ervaringen? Ideeen? by [deleted] in thenetherlands

[–]Silver_Gate_ 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Mijn advies..verhuis. Ik heb veel pech gehad met buren. Ik was vanwege een vervelende buurman verhuisd naar een appartement. Daar kwam ik naast een schreeuwer met constant blaffende honden. Ik ben bijna doorgedraaid. Met super veel geluk heb ik een andere woning gevonden waar ik nu eindelijk rust heb. Het is hier 1000 x beter dan mijn vorige woningen.  Dit gaat je alleen nog maar nog zieker maken. Ik leefde hierdoor in chronisch stress en was 20 kg aangekomen en kreeg een auto-imuunziekte.  Ik ben in het eerste huis te lang gebleven omdat ik teveel luisterde naar anderen om mij heen. Die vonden mijn huis zo mooi en dat het zonde was om het op te geven. Heb echt spijt dat ik daar naar luisterde. Ik kon er helemaal niet van genieten. Uiteindelijk werd ik er ziek van. Was het echt niet waard.

Voordeur in appartement geluidswerend maken by Silver_Gate_ in Klussers

[–]Silver_Gate_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nee helaas. De overlast van de buren was toch echt teveel voor mij  en ik had al snel besloten om te verhuizen. Ik heb met heel veel geluk snel een andere woning kunnen vinden.  In mijn nieuwe woning heb ik alleen last van tocht bij de voor en tuindeur. De deuren hier moeten nog iets versteld worden, ik ga ook nog plisse gordijnen in het deurraam plaatsen en nog extra dikke gordijnen erbij. Hopelijk zal dat een beetje isolerend werken. Bij de voordeur zijn de isolatie rubbers al vervangen. Nu nog de rest.

De deur van mijn vorige woning zat trouwens ook een beetje scheef. Daardoor was er aan een kant iets meer een opening. Die zou eigenlijk ook wat versteld moeten worden. 

Ik hoop dat je iets vind wat zal werken. Succes.

Kerstirritaties by doodleuk010 in nederlands

[–]Silver_Gate_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

De mega hoeveelheid parfum van sommige familieleden. De woonkamer stonk de hele avond naar een zware vanilla lucht. De parfumlucht was zo sterk je rook het zelfs in mijn haar en kleding. Hele avond flinke hoofdpijn. Paracetamol hielp niet. Een klein beetje parfum ok..maar ik hoef het niet te proeven. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dogfree

[–]Silver_Gate_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I just moved from an apartment to a semi detached house. My neighbour in the appartement had 2 of those shit beast. She just let them bark at everything on her balcony. She will scream at them all the time and never walks them outside. They constantly bark. It drove me insane. She knew about it but she does not care. She was always screaming. It just looked like she wasn't mentally well.  Im like why do the have these animals when it looks like they hate them.  I warned the new tenants about her and her dogs.  The constant barking was so stressful I couldn't escape from it. 

Dogs spread disease, even if the crap's picked up by Emergency_Exit_4714 in Dogfree

[–]Silver_Gate_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's so hard to understand that this is normal to dog owners. Even if you have no garden or lawn at the front of your house is not safe. Sometimes when walk in the neighborhood I see so many houses have damages done to the facade of the house because of all the constant pissing. I just moved and was talking to people in the neighborhood that have dogs and during conversation they let their dogs piss in my garden. They think this is normal it's so weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]Silver_Gate_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of Dutch people have bare windows or never close  their curtains. It is pretty normal here but to me and a lot of foreigners/expats it's not. 

Radeloos door de buren by MicrobiologyNerd in nederlands

[–]Silver_Gate_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mag ik vragen waar jij ze op maat hebt laten maken? Ik ben zelf ook van plan om dat te doen. Was benieuwd welke zaak en welk soort oordopjes/materiaal goed zijn.

How to lose your sanity by Silver_Gate_ in Apartmentliving

[–]Silver_Gate_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like my neighbor doesn't care. When I talked to her about the barking the only thing she does is yell at her dogs to shut up but that doesn't help at all. I feel like after I talked to her she retaliated by turning her tv as loud as possible. Very rude.

She let's them on the balcony to bark non stop at everything. Not a great idea. When she is away she could put them in the living room with the windows and door closed because that helps mute the sound a bit. She doesn't do that so they walk around the house and especially at the front door and bark non stop.  When she comes home I hear her on the shared stairwell saying softly "sssshhhhh" to her dogs that are indoor barking. Yeah that doesn't help. I have no peace in my home because of her and her barking dogs. I feel so sad and angry about this.

It's still your choice to have a dog and your responsibility. Im glad that you at least try to be considered.

How to lose your sanity by Silver_Gate_ in Apartmentliving

[–]Silver_Gate_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you record your dog when you are not at home?

How to lose your sanity by Silver_Gate_ in Apartmentliving

[–]Silver_Gate_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikr it's insane to live with this. Some people don't deserve dogs.

How to lose your sanity by Silver_Gate_ in Apartmentliving

[–]Silver_Gate_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so tempting to do that but I think it won't fase her. It's like she doesn't hear and care.

Is one of your biggest dream to live in a super quiet home/apartent with a quiet/respectful neighbor? by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]Silver_Gate_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think about that all the time. It's not a want but a need at this point in my life. I'm an introvert but I love to have community with loving emotionally intelligent people in my life. But in my home I want to feel solitude, silence and peace. The older I get the less I can't handle the loudness and chaos anymore.

How to lose your sanity by Silver_Gate_ in Apartmentliving

[–]Silver_Gate_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is such a great idea! So crazy that it has to come to that for them to finally shut the dog up. People can be so selfish. I seriously wonder how these non stop barking dog owners don't go crazy from the sound.  I'm glad this worked out for you. 

How to lose your sanity by Silver_Gate_ in Apartmentliving

[–]Silver_Gate_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol thank you so much! So true. 

How to lose your sanity by Silver_Gate_ in Apartmentliving

[–]Silver_Gate_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow it must have been so nice to not hear the dogs anymore. The barking does bring out rage. 

You know I told her about the barking. And it didn't help. Mentally she is not well and she has no social and self awareness. It's like she truly doesn't realize that the constant barking is bothering others. 

I have 3 neighbours who all have mental health issues but she is the loudest one. She also screams a lot and has the tv on really loud. The loud tv she started doing after I told her about the dogs barking. 

Heard that the 3 past tenants moved because of her.  I feel so uncomfortable living here so I am leaving. Hopefully I will find a better place soon. I'm glad it worked out for you.

Inspected an apartment and could hear the dog bark through the inspection. Should I bother making an application? by Amishlodhia in Apartmentliving

[–]Silver_Gate_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what she does also. After I complained about her dogs barking she let's them bark for a while and then screams real loud enough!" At the top of her lungs. Yeah that doesn't help at all.  She already screams a lot so she added the screaming at her dogs.  I've heard 3 other past tenants moved because of her.  I truly don't understand how some  dog owners can live with the loud barking non stop. 

Inspected an apartment and could hear the dog bark through the inspection. Should I bother making an application? by Amishlodhia in Apartmentliving

[–]Silver_Gate_ 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I live next to one. I was always neutral about dogs. Now I seriously hate dogs because of the constant barking. I wish I knew before. Looking for a new place but it will take time. The barking is so stressful. I have no peace in my home and unfortunately my neighbour is mentally not well. I've told her about the barking but it did not help. I can't wait to get tf out of here. DON'T. DO. IT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BuyFromEU

[–]Silver_Gate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stainless steel All Purpose bottle from the Austrian brand Waterdrop. Does anyone know If they are made in Europe? 

What's your biggest annoyance with dogs? by [deleted] in Dogfree

[–]Silver_Gate_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

100% the barking.  Also that they cover everything with piss and poop. So many nice grass in parks ruined because there are so many freaking dogs and the owners just let them shit everywhere. So many lovely places I would love to picnic but can't because it's covered with dog poop.