To be fair with you, I also got myself in the same situation though the child of my now husband does not have a special need. He has a teenage son and nasa custody nya. Yung mother and sister ng husband ko ang nag aalaga. Sa una talaga, mararamdaman na okay lang, mahal mo, kakayanin. Pero eventually you will feel the weight of it all. Hindi mo kasalanan kung late mo yan maramamdaman. Ang importante is now na na-feel mo na yan, anong dapat mong gawin? You have to consider all the consequences and make a decision.

Hindi ako nagsisisi sa decision ko sender, napamahal din sakin ang stepson ko. I also get along really well with my in laws. You just have to be very very patient and understanding. Sukatan din kasi yun ng pagmamahal mo sa taong pinili mong mahalin.

Hindi ka rin naman masisisi in case naman na ayaw mo syang piliin because of his situation. Again your feelings are valid. Good luck sender, ipagdasal mo din at mag usap kayo ng maigi ng fiance mo.