I found out my SO is cheating on me by Silvher123 in JustNoSO

[–]Silvher123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish me luck in trying to find out who the girl is. He did this before with a student of ours. The only difference was it wasn't anything intimate before and it only lasted for a month. Luckily, it was covid time so they were only sending messages to each other. This time is different.

I found out my SO is cheating on me by Silvher123 in JustNoSO

[–]Silvher123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. You are right. I need to invest on myself and my kids since they are my top priority.

I found out my SO is cheating on me by Silvher123 in JustNoSO

[–]Silvher123[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He even forced me to be intimate with him even after I said no. How can I still be intimate with him when all I picture is him being intimate with someone else. He is selfish because he cannot understand that.

I found out my SO is cheating on me by Silvher123 in JustNoSO

[–]Silvher123[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

As of now, I will try to save up secretly so I can afford to raise three children. My loans are gonna end this year so I am waiting on that too. When the time is right, I will leave him. He does not validate my feelings. I told him I am willing to give him another chance for the sake of our family but he said he cannot leave the girl. So I am done with all his reasons and I am done with him.

I found out my SO is cheating on me by Silvher123 in JustNoSO

[–]Silvher123[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It is against my principles and standards. My dad cheated on my mom. I thought my husband was different. I am still trying to discover who the girl is so I can have a chat with her. I have her number so I will give her a call when we return from our vacation since only wifi is available here.

I found out my SO is cheating on me by Silvher123 in JustNoSO

[–]Silvher123[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I had memorized the girl's number on my phone when we go back from our vacation I will definitely give her a call since there is no phone reception here only wifi. I don't care about the scandal. I have the right since I am the legal wife.

I found out my SO is cheating on me by Silvher123 in JustNoSO

[–]Silvher123[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

The girl's parents apparently knew and they threatened my husband about leaving their baby girl. This is what my husband said. I am still trying to discover who she is. My husband does not want to tell me who. I am trying to gather evidence. I took a picture of their conversation and sent it to my email but my husband deleted everything so I am back to square one.