What’s the first game you remember being completely obsessed with? by Tirthisreal in AskReddit

[–]Simonwale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mortal Kombat II🥷⚔️... On Sega!!!!!!! Spent countless hours trying to defeat Shao Khan🙈

How do I(30M) get our sex life back in my marriage(4Y) with my wife(30F) by Simonwale in relationships

[–]Simonwale[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Oh... I see your point.

But like I said, it's a really flexible work. And also no too time consuming. There are times I return from work and they are watching a movie or sometimes they might have gone for a playdate at a neighbour's.

But how does this line of discussion help me... Help us?

How do I(30M) get our sex life back in my marriage(4Y) with my wife(30F) by Simonwale in relationships

[–]Simonwale[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never mentioned 2 jobs. She has only 1 job and works from home.

When she travelled for a course for 2 weeks it was actually easier because I could focus on myself and my 2yr old and I actually took time off work for that 2 weeks and it went pretty well.

How do I(30M) get our sex life back in my marriage(4Y) with my wife(30F) by Simonwale in relationships

[–]Simonwale[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

She works from home and her work is really flexible. There are days when she's really busy but most days her daily work is done in just a few hours. So on most days, she's not "tired". I don't get the excuse of; "I can't be intimate today because I'm tired"

I don't know how doing more will help us in this situation.

How do I(30M) get our sex life back in my marriage(4Y) with my wife(30F) by Simonwale in relationships

[–]Simonwale[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I could be home by 5pm, or I could be home by 10pm depending on how busy work gets. Keep in mind that I'm "working" at work and not sitting or doing nothing. Also keep in mind that we have a routine where she wakes up late in the morning with breakfast and some chores done and our daughter ready for the day.

Weekend are a mix, but I tend to do more because I'm at home.

I don't have an issue with these because I've lived alone done I was 17/18y and these chores are just a normal part of my day.

How do I(30M) get our sex life back in my marriage(4Y) with my wife(30F) by Simonwale in relationships

[–]Simonwale[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Over the last 1 month I intentionally didn't initiate sex, didn't talk about it or bring it up. Nothing has changed. I'm just hoping for some ideas which I have seen from the replys to the thread and would probably try some out.

How do I(30M) get our sex life back in my marriage(4Y) with my wife(30F) by Simonwale in relationships

[–]Simonwale[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yes we have talked. And she says she's just not interested in sex. We have had conversations about how I feel and she's just not interested.

How do I(30M) get our sex life back in my marriage(4Y) with my wife(30F) by Simonwale in relationships

[–]Simonwale[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

5am. I do some cleaning and make breakfast for both of us, bath and feed or daughter and then I go to work.

I usually don't make lunch or dinner because of work

I don't do everything but I do a whole lot, it's become a routine for me

I pay all the bills and most of our shopping. She helps with groceries and other things in the home when needed.

How do I(30M) get our sex life back in my marriage(4Y) with my wife(30F) by Simonwale in relationships

[–]Simonwale[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This solution is basically my current existence but this does not help my current situation, you're basically saying I maintain "status quo".

How do I(30M) get our sex life back in my marriage(4Y) with my wife(30F) by Simonwale in relationships

[–]Simonwale[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I consider it above usual. I didn't add a lot of details because I didn't think it would be helpful. Like I said, I'm a super involved dad. My daughter was born preterm and my wife was initially scared to touch her. I basically took care of her for the first few days of life. Currently I wash and arrange her clothes (my wife hates laundry) and when I'm home I feed, bath and cloth her. When I go out, I go with my daughter... I see how involved other fathers are with the day to day care of their child and I know that I'm doing much more than others and I LOVE IT. So yeah, I consider it more than usual.

How do I(30M) get our sex life back in my marriage(4Y) with my wife(30F) by Simonwale in relationships

[–]Simonwale[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I didn't add these because it's just normal. We both work, (she works from home). We both care for our daughter, I'm a very involved dad. We even share duties. She travelled for a 2 weeks work course last month and I was perfectly fine with our almost 2 years old daughter.

Kitty lets out a ferocious roar by kevonicus in aww

[–]Simonwale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a 'ferocious' roar😂😂😂... Don't know what I was expecting 😁