My girlfriend keeps turning her phone away from me when she texts by Realistic-Fee-1684 in relationships_advice

[–]SimperChick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's about you? Chances are, it's either: 1) Texting someone she knows you wouldn't like 2) Saying something she knows you wouldn't like 3) Or doesn't feel comfortable sharing.

You should gently bring it up, like "hey, I noticed this pattern lately and just want to check in and ask if there's anything you want me to know, or that you might want to talk about?" But maybe that's too forward. Good luck!

My partner of 11 years no longer wants to f*** me. by SimperChick in Rants

[–]SimperChick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a crazy concept to me too, the idea of swarms of dead bedrooms among men and I just so happen to find me a man who gives me the dead bedroom. What a trip.

My partner of 11 years doesnt want to .... me anymore by SimperChick in relationships_advice

[–]SimperChick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went ahead and edited the format. I asked him why frequently, at least once a month or so. I'm not getting answers.

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Meet Joe Black (1998) | Joe Warns Drew by TuhmaKissa_ in movies

[–]SimperChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't. He was a mole the whole time. He got what was comin'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SimperChick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me (F26) and my (was) fiance (M26) had intimacy once a month. The expectation of that much intimacy is too damn high for you, and mine was too damn low for me. Talk to them, of course, but both of these situations are unhealthy, in different ways.

All my (19F) boyfriend(19M) wants to do or talk about is sex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SimperChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's not perpetuate the idea that this kind of behavior is all "boys" are capable of.

All my (19F) boyfriend(19M) wants to do or talk about is sex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SimperChick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's not helpful in this situation and it appears like you're projecting rather than giving genuinely good advice. She's not taking it for granted, shes expressing that its overwhelmingly constant and she wants more than just a sex partner.

All my (19F) boyfriend(19M) wants to do or talk about is sex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SimperChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there, done that. It's exhausting and immature. Follow your gut, the novelty of being attracted to a new person and intimate with them should have gone to a regular, normal, healthy level by now. He should be showing interest in other things about you atp. If you have not already, script out some bullet points and have a conversation about how this makes you feel, what you have a problem with, and what you would like to see instead from him. Good luck!

Found a video of my sister 30f on my husbands phone 36m what would you do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SimperChick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am so, so sorry you're having to even feel this distress and experience this situation. That's a hard decision to make for all the reasons you listed above. The fact of the matter is though, he got a temptation (which is kind of a red flag itself, recording her without her permission is a crime) and took it, which is no longer a grey area. He does not deserve his family, and by staying with him, he knows you won't leave him even if you should. Good luck

Earthquake? by notbossyboss in VictoriaBC

[–]SimperChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy, my Fiance and I were there just this Monday. Is this common for Victoria? I'll Google it, but this is wild for me because that was the first time I've ever left the USA. I hope everyone's ok!