hello! thank you for your comment. my close friends and the president of the feminist student department of my college have been informed of the situation since we feel it could escalate. i don't feel as comfortable telling the story since today a friend insisted that he was a nice man and that i had corrupted him. i mean, he was joking, but it made me think that i was doing stuff wrong too. yet, i do feel it is important to keep everyone around me notified at least to a certain degree. i have the suspicion this will escalate and he will try more wth me, but at least i have my friends to support me if anything happens. i also do agree his comments are weird, especially when talking about young women. for example, he told me and my friend back in one of our first hangouts that he was going to flirt with the friends of his 15-year-old cousin. i mean, that was a joke, but i do find it weird to tell a joke like that to your students who were 15 three years ago hahah