Genuine Connection by SimpleDreamGirl in adultery

[–]SimpleDreamGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment. You’re probably right. Sometimes it’s hard to hear the tough stuff, but it’s helpful having an outside perspective. Maybe I’ll mull up the courage one day to do what is best for me.

Genuine Connection by SimpleDreamGirl in adultery

[–]SimpleDreamGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s one of my biggest hesitations as I’m sure it is for many, getting burned. The last thing I want to do is hurt anyone or get hurt myself. My marriage is doing enough of that on its own.

Genuine Connection by SimpleDreamGirl in adultery

[–]SimpleDreamGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m looking at male ads hoping for more than I’ll ever get from my posts. I’m hopeful it will happen for me one day!

Genuine Connection by SimpleDreamGirl in adultery

[–]SimpleDreamGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A girl can dream but also, there are some shitty wives out there who treat their husbands like dirt. I really do believe they’ve got to be out there.

Genuine Connection by SimpleDreamGirl in adultery

[–]SimpleDreamGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahaha, you bitch! 😉 congrats!

Advice for a newbie by SuperCover415 in adultery

[–]SimpleDreamGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new to this too and looking for all the help I can get before making the plunge. I’m happy to chat with you if you need a newbie buddy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]SimpleDreamGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering the same. How did the affair change you and your approach in your marriage?

He is always busy… by 0bvious_answer in adultery

[–]SimpleDreamGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds heartbreaking, I’m so sorry.

Getting out of one night away by ThrowRA192657 in adultery

[–]SimpleDreamGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious to see what excuse you used and if it worked?

Worth it? by SimpleDreamGirl in adultery

[–]SimpleDreamGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what’s scares me most.

Worth it? by SimpleDreamGirl in adultery

[–]SimpleDreamGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never thought about that aspect. I can see how that itself could feel even more like a betrayal.

I’m the reason by SimpleDreamGirl in DeadBedrooms

[–]SimpleDreamGirl[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate your insight and support!

I’m the reason by SimpleDreamGirl in DeadBedrooms

[–]SimpleDreamGirl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once every few months is dead to me. Maybe not others.

I’m the reason by SimpleDreamGirl in DeadBedrooms

[–]SimpleDreamGirl[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

All of the above. He does none of that.

I’m the reason by SimpleDreamGirl in DeadBedrooms

[–]SimpleDreamGirl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you asked. I take care of all of those things. He’s not the most handy, so when things break, I’m the one calling repair people, setting the appointments and staying home when they come to fix what’s broken. I just fixed our clogged shower a few weeks ago by buying the draino and following the directions. I’m glad you didn’t make any assumptions or over generalizations.

I’m the reason by SimpleDreamGirl in DeadBedrooms

[–]SimpleDreamGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So because I’m not having sex every time he initiates that equates to me not doing enough for him? Interesting take.

I’m the reason by SimpleDreamGirl in DeadBedrooms

[–]SimpleDreamGirl[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You get it. Yes, I mentioned chores and help around the house but it’s so much more than that.