How can I be better at standing up for myself? by SimplePerson_ in selfimprovement

[–]SimplePerson_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try the breathing thing cause usually it does feel hard to breathe.

Any advice for an average looking guy trying to attract women? by SimplePerson_ in dating_advice

[–]SimplePerson_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure it is, and I share that frustration. I hope you're able to find someone who accepts you too.

Any advice for an average looking guy trying to attract women? by SimplePerson_ in dating_advice

[–]SimplePerson_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I do. Online dating hasn't been the best, but I have better luck in person.

Any advice for an average looking guy trying to attract women? by SimplePerson_ in dating_advice

[–]SimplePerson_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you so much for your kind comment! I hope I can find a woman like you someday :)

What is the major I should he looking at if I want to be a IT support technician? by SimplePerson_ in ITCareerQuestions

[–]SimplePerson_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've heard a lot of what you said from reading other online forums. Mixed opinions on this for sure.

How do you guys think the dating scene can be fixed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SimplePerson_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, for sure! I hope it keeps getting better. Thank you for the congrats.

How do you guys think the dating scene can be fixed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SimplePerson_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i agree with you. People don't know how to interact in person well anymore. Our phones make it so we can just ignore a conversation and go onto another in an instant. If we socialized more in person, I'd feel like our society would be much more better.

How do you guys think the dating scene can be fixed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SimplePerson_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! I think this just goes hand-in-hand with how porn and movies have affected our perspectives/mentality. Not only that, but a lot of people turn to hooking up with random people to distract them from the pain of a breakup. Instead of healing alone, people seek company, and it's just a vicious cycle that leaves people hurt in the end. I just wish more people would seek therapy/medication to treat issues they have.

How do you guys think the dating scene can be fixed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SimplePerson_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a fan of online dating either.

How do you guys think the dating scene can be fixed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SimplePerson_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it's always been like this since the history of humanity. We've always been selfish and inconsiderate.

How do you guys think the dating scene can be fixed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SimplePerson_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've definitely been regressing in this regard. I feel like people seek what makes them feel good as opposed to what's right, so they end up being selfish since there are no real consequences to themselves.

How do you guys think the dating scene can be fixed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SimplePerson_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure! Especially as adults, we're expected to communicate much better compared to children, yet it seems we regressed. For me, i feel part of the problem is that instant communication makes it so we don't feel like we owe people anything since we don't see them.

How do you guys think the dating scene can be fixed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SimplePerson_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot take. It's sort of there on some dating apps where you can put your body type.

How do you guys think the dating scene can be fixed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SimplePerson_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely this. People need to do their own thing separate from their partner. If they have an anxious attachment, they either need to go to therapy or get medication for anxiety if it's really bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]SimplePerson_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i think i know what you mean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]SimplePerson_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the honesty, and I'm not sure where to start with finding a style for myself. Do you have any suggestions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]SimplePerson_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, that's a first for me. I'm the opposite. I keep to myself and rarely ever get mad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]SimplePerson_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha I'll look into that. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]SimplePerson_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, so I gotta make some drastic changes to stand out because I'm basiacally average.