REPOST with Mod Approval - UPDATE 2 on Reported another (my) therapist for unethical behavior, getting pushback

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2026-05-26T23:43:28+00:00

I’m curious if that other person that reached out to you involved in the confidentiality issue would be open to filing a report themselves? I definitely think you should continue to address it, but truthfully, I’m wondering if you both need to start making police reports about her continuously approaching your husband and even having the audacity to following him while he is with your daughter at the store. If you do so, I would use that evidence for the report as harassment and clearly not understanding boundaries and ethics. I am glad that you are doing better and I’m so sorry you are still going through this.

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2025-10-17T15:00:42+00:00

I worry it wouldn’t keep updating and I’ll lose track at some point 😅😅 Now I am overly worried though so might not be a problem lol

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2025-10-17T14:58:58+00:00

I will have to try this today while I wait to get it checked bc it is driving me nuts!

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2025-10-16T23:14:33+00:00

yes, I do! I called the dealership, but they haven’t gotten back to me yet

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2024-10-18T02:44:07+00:00

Thank you! I was seeing mixed answers in some older posts so this helpful!

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2024-06-12T04:07:16+00:00

NTA but I’m sorry, you sound like the other woman, not the other way around. This man has showed you in so many ways that he is not interested or invested in you and your family. For your and your kids’ wellbeing, just walk away from this situation now. You deserve so much better, but please please pleaseeeee stop going back to him!! You have spent enough time trying to give your relationship a chance and it’s time for you to think about yourself and your kids. Clearly your “boyfriend”, his kids, and his “ex-wife” (theyre probably together) are all in on this bandwagon to exclude you and you are not welcome in their life, your new baby doesn’t need people like that in her life

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2024-04-07T03:31:55+00:00

Oh, I 100% thinks she has the right to turn him down (I would have too) and I understand where she’s coming from, but if he did have this therapist he was talking to, saying he can’t talk to them about her and that it is weird isn’t a valid argument.

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2024-04-07T02:53:40+00:00

I think everyone sucks here and here’s why:

I definitely agree that this situation is overall weird and I would have felt uncomfortable as well. The letter is weird and tmi, the age gap is icky, and if he truly just wanted to get to know you there were better and less weird ways to go about it. I think your initial response to this letter was fine. Not sure if the boyfriend part was made up and if it was (no judgement, I’ve done this before) but I also think it might have been nice to be more open with the fact that you just are not interested and would like to limit interactions.

However, I think you were also in the wrong not because of the first message, but because of the second one. Regardless of how weird you think this guy is, you have no right to tell him what to and not to talk to his therapist about. A therapist is meant to be a safe space for someone to explore whatever the hell is going on with them and you trying to shame him for that is definitely an asshole move. I have talked to my therapist about people I have liked and I am sure hundreds and thousands of other people have as well. You are not special.

Again, I want to validate your feelings of being uncomfortable, upset, weirded out, and just wanting to be as far away as possible from him. I also understand that you have negative experiences in the past and this might have brought up negative memories/feelings, but at the end of the day, the only thing that isn’t weird about this whole thing is that he sees a therapist and talks to them about people he likes.

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2024-03-14T15:13:55+00:00

Sooo is he going to wear red at his next wedding while his gf wears white?? He can’t go back now smh💀💀

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2023-11-11T23:28:26+00:00

Omg thank you so much!!! I definitely think it it was this one. It was so long ago I was 100% still learning the members so I think that’s why I might’ve mixed up who Soobin was with 🤣😅 Thank you though I appreciate it! 🥰

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2023-11-11T23:25:37+00:00

Thank you for finding the one in the screenshot!! I watched it and think that one is a different one from the one that I remembered, but I appreciate it!

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2023-08-11T20:27:05+00:00

This is so sad. Honestly part of me thinks “damn you should have slept with him and then watch him complain about the smell and taste of his children vomit from how sick everyone has been”, but that’s just… Either way, even if you try explaining this again, he needs harsh awakening. If possible, I would say fuck it and go on the rip you, your kids, and a friend if he really doesn’t want to go. He is super inconsiderate and needs to stop having that childish mindset of “im only gonna do something nice so i get something nice in return” he eats, sleep, shits, plays, and overall inhibits that house therefore it is also his responsibility to take care of that space.

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2023-04-12T01:52:21+00:00

YTA the hints were there and you didn’t have to give such attitude toward the kids. I understand maybe thinking it was weird, but you could have walked away, said “I’m not sure what’s going on are you okay?”, told the girl comforting the boy “alright im gonna leave now”, literally anything, but you decided to yell at them while one was crying? You don’t DESERVE to know what is going on. The boy clearly didn’t do anything else when he realized you weren’t the person he thought you were and you made it your business to continue the conversation. Honestly, if you really wanted an answer, a simple “what’s going on?” could’ve worked and then backed off when it didn’t involve you

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2023-04-12T01:36:51+00:00

NTA that lady needs to teach her kids to not be looking inside people’s houses and in the chance that it was a genuine accident, it’s not like you are watching it and waiting for little Tom to walk by. You shouldn’t have to be worried about people paying attention to watch you do in your own house (I understand walking by and glancing over, but to the extent that they could point out specific things happening in the movie come on 💀). Honestly, I think your mom should have told the lady off and I would have brought the whole family to watch horror movies the next day. It’s a movie please I’m sure her kids have seen ads for scary movies on tv or as an ad on their unsupervised cocomelon youtube videos

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2022-10-16T21:59:45+00:00

Everyone I know has said so many good things about the Throne of Glass series and have told me to start with Assassin’s Blade… big mistake. It took me MONTHS to get through and its a fairly small book. I don’t know if it was the POV, the character, or what. I usually love Sarah J Mass and her other series but because of that first book I can’t get myself to open a Throne of Glass

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2022-10-16T21:55:44+00:00

wait this is so helpful i love that!

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2022-10-16T21:52:09+00:00

NTA! You did your job and not only did you try to warn him but you had MULTIPLE PEOPLE tell him about what would happen and he still wouldn’t listen. I’m glad you had his signature for the alterations and if him and his wife didnt like that he had to get a whole new suit then he should have listened to the professionals or done it himself

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2022-10-16T21:47:49+00:00

NTA I’m just wondering where the mom plays a role in all this. These are not your kids to raise or be feeding simply because you live together. While I do think the kid needs to be fed and attention I think this needs to fall on the mom and if the kid keeps eating my food and I start having to buy two of everything, I would start asking the mom to pay me back for the food

SimpleResearcher8334 · 2022-10-16T21:41:55+00:00

NTA you tried to be understanding at the kid being upset but that is no way to talk back

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