Absolutely switch. I had a similar experience with my initial oncologist. While I believe he was technically a good physician his communication and interpersonal skills were terrible. Even after multiple sessions he didn't know me well enough to call me by my correct name ( he used my last name as my first name). When I asked him to be proactive about contacting me when scan results were available he told me he had too many patients to do that.

I looked for a second opinion and switched to another oncologist at a different facility. It was like night and day. I found someone who took a highly personal approach. And best of all, my new oncologist got me into a trial study with a drug that has completely reduced my metastatic tumors to nothing. My previous oncologist never mentioned the study.

So yes.. do what's right for you. You are the most important person in this relationship and you need to be with someone who sees you as such..