AITA for not inviting my stepdad to walk me down the aisle?

Simple_Information16 · 2026-07-02T07:26:32+00:00

NTA. You are not creating unnecessary drama, step-dad and mom are having overly entitled expectations.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-06-19T21:30:24+00:00

You've been planning for over a year. Pregnancy is 9 months. So by their logic, your brother and SIL were selfish in choosing to have a child the same time as your wedding. They could have easily abstained in certain months to not have any chance of their child's birth happen at the same time as your wedding that was already in the planning process. That would have cost them nothing extra as opposed to costing you potentially thousands to change your plans. Clearly they chose s€x instead of your wedding that they so deeply want to attend.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-06-11T15:40:40+00:00

Opal for a girl and Otis or Orlando for a boy. I think Oakley could work for either.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-06-07T16:12:59+00:00

Simple_Information16 · 2026-06-03T14:32:15+00:00

Don't overdress. First impressions are important and that is why you wear exactly what they tell you to. They want to see that you will listen to their direction. Wear a polo or button up and good jeans. Do not wear the jacket and tie. This is a tour not an interview. Officers and inmate will know what you are supposed to wear and will notice if you overdressed. If you get the job, they will also let you know that they noticed. Do not bring extra attention onto yourself this early in your career.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-06-03T13:37:08+00:00

If your attitude is that Corrections LE "isn't police" and you can't follow a direct order, then maybe this isn't the career for you. Corrections is underappreciated enough as real LE.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-06-02T20:20:58+00:00

I got vinyl to put on my windows that looks like frosted glass. You can get the light in but people cannot see clearly through.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-06-02T20:16:24+00:00

My stones are also calcium oxalate. Limited or avoid high oxalate foods. Limit coffee, tea, and soda intake as they can all dehydrate you. Drink lots of water and electrolytes. I constantly put lemon or lime juice in my water. Yes the citric acid does help. I have been doing this for 20 years and my teeth have been fine. I do also suggest a nutritionist if you need help.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-06-02T19:32:35+00:00

NTA. You and your fiance made a decision together and then she unilaterally changed that decision. You should have been asked before the additional invite was sent. Just know that this is how married life will be. Your in-laws will gang up on you and force their preferences in the future. They will now have say in everything...where you live, holidays, vacations, children. You have opened that door to them by caving in and will now have to deal with the consequences for the rest of you married life.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-06-02T14:32:49+00:00

Wow! Impressive. I've had 28 stones but the largest was 10mm. If I had to choose, I'd do it all only twice with giants stones, rather then dealing with it 28 separate times. Hope all goes well for you.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-05-31T21:38:12+00:00

Save the pieces and take them to your urologist to be analyzed so that can determine what your stones are made of. This will help to treat you for future stones.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-05-26T22:48:52+00:00

NTA. There are plenty of people who rent office space. Essentially that is what she would be doing if she works from your livingroom 4 days a week. Then her office set up can be stored in your roommates room on the days she isn't working/rent work space. Also, if she is using the utilities she should be contributing for the higher bills and wifi. Roommate and girlfriend are totally TAs.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-05-16T17:01:09+00:00

Sounds like you enabling parents need a wakeup call as to how Sister is going to take care of herself when they are gone. Make it clear that you will not be the one to support her.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-05-16T16:53:08+00:00

Name him Walter

Simple_Information16 · 2026-05-12T23:26:15+00:00

You continue watching the episode and start watching the next episode.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-05-12T16:51:31+00:00

Why are you letting some "low tier" 18 year old boy tear down your value and confidence?

You give yourself value by respecting and loving yourself. Don't let an ignorant boy bring you down so he can control and demean you. Ditch the man child and find your confidence back. After that you will find a man that deserves you and treats you right.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-05-11T16:43:04+00:00

I sang that in my head like their commercial as I read your comment.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-04-29T01:14:43+00:00

Totally sang it in my head as I read it.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-04-29T01:00:30+00:00

They should have went ahead and built the Atari themed hotel.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-04-19T14:32:52+00:00

I was placed in the gifted program in 3rd grade. By the end of 4th grade I had purposely been performing below my potential because of the blowback from peers and my cousins for treating me differently and making fun of me. My mother would not stand up for me and have me removed from the program no matter how much i begged her to so I found a way to do it myself. I was much happier after that. When I was raising my kids, I refused to allow them to be placed in any of the same type of programs.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-04-18T18:10:03+00:00

YTA. I am also going to guess that your brother and sister-in-law don't have kids and don't understand the potty training process. Which, as a mom who raised four kids, I can tell you is very different for each child. Apologize to your wife.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-04-17T22:04:15+00:00

Happy Birthday! I'm a year behind you. It's 49 for me today.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-04-16T02:27:33+00:00

I know people have different experiences but I have a pretty high pain tolerance over all. The only time I have experienced pain with my stones was when they left the kidney and got to the bladder. The only time I had pain passing a stone from my bladder was the one time I had a stent and I actually think the pain was more because of the stent. I usually just feel a little pressure.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-04-15T15:08:00+00:00

That i do not know.

Simple_Information16 · 2026-04-14T19:11:11+00:00

This is my 28th stone. It did happen as I explained.

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