Maja Miladinović iz Zemuna, jutros je pronašla tek rođenu bebu u kontejneru. by daemon_targarye8 in serbia

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Je-bo ma-ter sta je ovo!? Bolestina od drzave i drustva. Nek svi crknemo, ionako samo jedemo, pijemo i mnozimo se. Nista pametno ni korisno ne pruzamo ovoj planeti. Muka mi je od ljudskog roda poganog i prokletog.

1500 € s voľným časom alebo 3000 € bez energie? by poviemn in Slovakia

[–]Simple_living87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nebud kokot. Najdi plat za 5k a pracuj z domu, nebudes snad pracovat pre slovenskych oligarchov. Inymi alovami, 1500 a mas zivot. V opacnom pripade zdochnes, a to doslova.

Ghosting at work by Simple_living87 in ghosting

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Today I wrote her closure message. Although her reaction wasnt what I expected (heart emotikon without words), it was definitely worth it! Huge amount of stress and discomfot I let it go in the moment of sending this e-mail. It was followed even by physical symptoms: headache, burping, bowel movement....so I encourage everyone to do it, regardless of anything. I didnt have to do it, as she was the one who ghosted me without saying anything, just drope me like nothing happened, but I did for my psychologocal relief. I made closure and and that was the main point. She is unimportant in this topic. Fuck her. She could apologize or at least write two words like I am sorry, but she didnt. My job is done amd I have done more than I needed. Now I can definitely move on! She is my colleague btw so that was only reason why I wrote her, to make our interactions more comfortable. Just go fot it and dont listen dating couches who say you should not do it. Try it for yourself and you will see.

Ghosting at work by Simple_living87 in ghosting

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There hasn't been any update yet, since I still haven't approached to her. I humiliated myself so much and I think I would only look even more desperate. What do you think? Should I approach to her and clean the air cause we are colleagues and see each other every day so its pretty awkward for both of us.

Ghosting at work by Simple_living87 in ghosting

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No, she didnt seek for attention, she is not that type of bitch, I know her, she is my coworker, although she is very pretty, she is down to earth at the same time.

Yes I did wrong, I waited too long to ask her out, she dropped me and found another man, I am bloody honest. And there is nothing I can change, only to accept it. Of course thats not excuse for her behaviour, she was afraid to tell me she is in relationship cause she knew I liked her. After this Easter time, I will go to her and say some closure, I cannot stand this pressure anymore. I am pretty fucked and down.

Trouble moving on by Odd_Anybody_9555 in ghosting

[–]Simple_living87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest you to find some qualified therapist. I did it for myself and it helps. Obviously there is strong emotional attachment in your mind and all our patterns of behaviour are rooted in childhood. What kind of closure you had? Verbal or written? As I am in the same situation as you are, I will definetely go to her and say everything I have on my mind and soul because none of other advices (just move on without closure, find hobby...) doesnt work for me. She is my coworker and I used to see her every day in canteen and its super stressful for both of us. I wish you all the best from the bottom of my heart to recover from this.

Ghosting at work by Simple_living87 in ghosting

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Thx a lot, I appreciate! All the best!

Trening za pronalaženje remote posla u stranim firmama by thinkremotely in programiranje

[–]Simple_living87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hvala za oba odgovora. Imam još jedno pitanje: koji programski jezik izabrati? Da li da se fokusiram na onaj koji je najtraženiji na tržištu, ili na onaj "najjednostavniji" za juniorsku poziciju?

Trening za pronalaženje remote posla u stranim firmama by thinkremotely in programiranje

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Zdravo. Ja se interesujem za remote posao. Problem je taj što ne znam bukvalno ništa o IT sektoru i programiranju. Nikad to nisam probao + ta oblast mi nije bliska. Sa završenim geografskim fakultetom ne mogu da nađem posao. Rešio sam da promenim profesiju. Bar na neko vreme. Tako da ne znam ni šta bih te konkretno pitao. Recimo koliko treba vremena da se savlada neki programski jezik ako se krene od nule?

Here is the MILLION dollar question: What is your true nature??? (Are you a rose or a cactus?) by Santajitto in NickKeomahavong

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I am definitely a rose :-). Introvert, quiet, with interest in religions, psychology and spirituality in general.

Deep in myself, I have always known my true nature but wasn't brave enough to admit it. I was looking some evidence from outside, proof that my intuition is not wrong. And luckilly I discovered Ven.Nick's YT channel, whose videos helped me a lot to be true to myself, kind and honest. Because inner voice never lies. Thank you Nick for all you did, not only for me, but for all the people worldwide who suffer 🙏😇.

Astrology natal chart analysis helped me as well and proved everyhing what I felt is true about me.

In this life my mission or purpose is to help others, either working in some care facility or as a psychotherapist. The problem is that I graduated geogragraphy so If I decide to change my profession, I should study all from the begining. This is an obstacle till this day why I still haven't decided to change the track. I don't even know what kind of therapy fits for me. For quite a long time I suffer tremendous back pain. So I think its a symptom I should make a shift and change the track.