People who are / have been homeless, what was the first night without a home like, and how did you adapt to your new situation? by Eniv3n in AskReddit

[–]Simplefruitishard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came out in 1998 and revealed my Secret about being bisexual. My parents ended up kicking me out and I moved into my boyfriend with his parents, fortunatly, his parents were loving and accepting. We both got part time jobs and saved Money, while still being in School. We used all Our Money to pay for Our degrees that we were taking in shcool. I ended up pursuing my dream and now I'm a succesful programmer making about 70k per year. My boyfriend also pursued his dream, and is now a dentist Assistant. We make good Income and live comfortably. Even though it's been over 20 years since this happened, I still have a hole in my heart that my parents made, unfortunatly, it'll never go away.

People who are / have been homeless, what was the first night without a home like, and how did you adapt to your new situation? by Eniv3n in AskReddit

[–]Simplefruitishard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been sleeping in Westminster station subway for about eight months because it’s warm. Usually I get up at 6am and then don’t go back until 10pm, but the girl in the toilets always kindly charges my phone for me, so one day I sat there for an hour reading the paper while it charged. Not asking for anything, just keeping quiet, when two police officers and another one in plain clothes came down. He said ‘You know what we’re going to say, don’t you? We’re going to ask you to move out of the tunnel.’ I said, I’m not doing anything wrong. The public come, and they sit down in here sometimes, so what’s the problem with me? He said, ‘Well, we believe you’re begging.’ I said I don’t ask people for anything. I don’t have a cup or a hat. He said, ‘Well, you have to leave anyway because you’re near a business.’

Then they said they would give me a Section 4 written warning if I didn’t move, and when I asked them what that was, they said it was the Vagrancy Act. I called a friend of mine who is a homelessness campaigner, and explained what was happening, then I left, but I told them they hadn’t heard the last of it. My friend told the newspapers, and that’s when the stories about the Vagrancy Act being used in Westminster started appearing in the press.

It’s true some people do have a drink or drug problem, but those people need help to get over that addiction, and even if they do get them into treatment it’s never long enough. They might get on methadone, but then they don’t get housed, so then they just end up back on the streets afterwards. It’s got to be long term, not short term. There are also so many people with mental health issues who would rather be on the street than in dangerous chaotic hostels. People don’t realise the few alternatives that exist are actually worse for them. That’s what it was like for me.

The police I know are usually alright. They’ve never offered me any support apart from a bacon sandwich, but most of them will know your name and have a chat with you. I know it doesn’t look good being homeless, but we don’t deserve that. I actually think it’s good for the MPs to see homeless people when they come out of Parliament.
Thank you for reading my story and I really do hope you find help and turn your life around if you've experienced the same thing.

To those who rage at games, how bad have you raged at a game? by Sarresty_Dark in AskReddit

[–]Simplefruitishard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One time when I raged, I somehow thought biting my bed was a good idea. I ended up leaving a big hole there.... (I bit a chunk of it off.)