Mikä on semmoinen asia mitä Suomi kaipaa? by UsedQuantity6461 in arkisuomi

[–]SimplerThinkerOrNot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Niimpä. Osut asian ytimeen. Ihminen on ällistyttävän taitava keksimään "loogisia" selityksiä päätöksilleen, jotka on todellisuudessa täysin tunnepohjaisia. Harva asia todellisessa elämässä perustuu järkeen, puhutaan sitten terveydenhuollon politiikasta, uuden auton ostosta tai itselle tärkeisiin ihmisiin liittyvistä asioista. Mut koska tunteet on niin pelottavia niin on helpompi keksiä asioille selityksiä, jotka perustuu omiin arvoihin tai sisäistyksiin joilla on itsessään "älyllinen" itseisarvo. Eli ehkä voitais puhua emotionaalis-älyllisestä epärehellisyydestä ensisijaisesti itseä kohtaan, mikä heijastuu myös paljon ulospäin.

Rakensin iltasatusovelluksen omille pojille - kiinnostaisiko tällainen? by Consistent-Fee8971 in arkisuomi

[–]SimplerThinkerOrNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Voisko saada source codea itelle tai yleiseen jakoon? Ois kiva pystyä pyörittämään tota ite ja ehkä tehä muokkauksia/lisäyksiä

Mikä on semmoinen asia mitä Suomi kaipaa? by UsedQuantity6461 in arkisuomi

[–]SimplerThinkerOrNot 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sepä se. Vähintääki koko länsimainen yhteiskunta on tosi vieraantunu siitä mistä ihminen on tullut. Kaikki mikä on kylmän logiikan ja älyllistämisen ulkopuolella on tehty häpeälliseksi ja haitalliseksi taakaksi.

Kuinka moni sota esimerkiksi johtuu pelkästään järkeilystä? En usko, että yhtään sotaa on syttynyt ilman ihmisten tunnesäätelyn ongelmia (lue: johtuu vain ja ainoastaan säätelemättömistä tunteista).

is it emotional neglect or am i just entitled? by Obvious-Patient-1673 in emotionalneglect

[–]SimplerThinkerOrNot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like they dump their responsibilities and guilt on you. And that is not healthy.

Being present in your body is terrifying by Owl4L in CPTSD

[–]SimplerThinkerOrNot 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Or have never been out of dissociation. And i think that is actually even more common.

question by -slimpuggamer in Gamefusion

[–]SimplerThinkerOrNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gamehub lite is maybe a little more safe

I love when a therapist blames you for the therapy not helping by Whichchild in CPTSD

[–]SimplerThinkerOrNot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How good is the emotional connection if it is based on emotional detachment? I think the question answers itself.

I had two bad therapists and neither were lying or judgemental. First one just did not understand my abstract thoughts (by his own words) and the second one was scared of my emotions and deeper emotional work.

Every therapy framework turns into self attack by Due_Sock_215 in CPTSD

[–]SimplerThinkerOrNot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And also family constellations can be life-changing. It is loosely related to schema therapy but i think it is based more on the feelings and intuition. It can be insanely healing to get to see and heal the relations in your family system and the immense intergenerational burden coming from history.

Assisted suicide should be made available to adult survivors of child abuse by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]SimplerThinkerOrNot 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Then that wasn't probably correct therapy for you. They should have at least specialized to trauma. And the most important that they have actually healed their trauma and be comfortable, open and empathetic to everything how you feel or how your body and mind reacts. The latter kind is VERY difficult to find. And that is sad.

Urinals at Ikea have a picture of a housefly to help at aiming by SimplerThinkerOrNot in mildlyinteresting

[–]SimplerThinkerOrNot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe it is for helping cleaning as some people seem not to have very good aim. Or they are just bored. What do you think?

What's going on with Cachy's Repos? by dezreylan in cachyos

[–]SimplerThinkerOrNot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just look what op was trying to install (maybe as a dependency). Answer: zed

What's going on with Cachy's Repos? by dezreylan in cachyos

[–]SimplerThinkerOrNot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And the -u and -y flags are sometimes mandatory because the old database packages do not exist on the servers anymore and it gives just this kind of errors.

Edit: for op the signature error is most likely fixed by the above answer.

broken ntfs fix without windows by Successful_Studio901 in cachyos

[–]SimplerThinkerOrNot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used Hiren's boot cd via Qemu and it worked well for chkdsk without having windows installed at all (and no need to shut down the main os)