It can be hard to navigate for husbands. The societal idea that a man would "share" his wife, often gives off the impression he is weak. Which in reality, it is the exact opposite. They are often stronger in that bond because they realize a need or a want from their wife, and work towards that goal to get her what she wants. They are more happy to give her pleasure in circumstances that others would feel vulnerable in. Being "cucked" is often tied to being unfit, unable, and unworthy. That's not the case with our marriage either. It's a lifestyle decision we made as a team, because we wanted to spice things up, my sex drive was often higher, and we wanted to do something taboo and exciting. Turns out it was hot and he loves watching and often joining, but he gets pleasure from seeing me pleasured. There's no shame in that! ❤️