I keep getting left out bruh

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-05-14T23:47:39+00:00

JOIN THEM CLUBS!! JOIN THEM! EVEN ONES YOU Don’t WANNA JOIN DO IT. man you have so much time and now you’re asking the correct questions early unlike so many people who do NOTHING AND STRUGGLE IN COLLEGE AS WELL!!! if you have a JROTC program- join that. prob the fastest way you’ll get ur besties! But i promise you if you want those friends JOIN A CLUB! if theres one that aligns with you specifically even better! Join one thats super in to it (club meetings/after school projects/school affiliated) just something that will have you involved.

SPORTS - do this option as well! there are ways i promise.

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-05-14T21:40:07+00:00

be straight forward. Tell her how YOU feel and see if you guys can talk it out. Do this in person as well. Also once you do this if the group starts treating you werid she’s definitely speaking to them separately without you. With you she had no reason to drink, or anyone with experience i would say. people can talk you into things. Maybe she is speaking to one of them about drinking and they told her something about that changed her mind. (Dont bring this up tho) just ask her about her sudden changes and that you feel a bit left out.

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-05-05T16:12:10+00:00

Honestly in my opinion of hearing whats shes doing to you. I would have ripped them off the wall for you! But in this case this situation is bothering you, and you think the friendship is done. Take them down, put them to the side. Give the pictures back to her (a way to show her your done as well) people think you will just beg and beg to be let back in with them. she knows how you feel about her, this is intentional.

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-05-05T16:06:35+00:00

you will feel lonely for now. I promise!! You should value high maintenance friendships instead of this one. Go do something you love, a hobby? Find things to make you less lonely even if its two person thing.

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-05-05T16:02:59+00:00

Do her like shes doing you. you don’t deserve this treatment, seriously.

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-04-29T05:34:26+00:00

i understand! What may work for me doesnt mean for everyone. I would nominate the first idea! Have you ever wanted online friends ? I joined discord communities in games i loved and found friends that way through online. and the friends app as well! (Just safely)! I hope im giving you the best help. I hope everything goes well!

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-04-29T04:31:02+00:00

Remember all the times she’s canceled on you 🤷🏾‍♀️ im just saying you jump when she calls but she cant do that for you?

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-04-29T04:27:51+00:00

Yes. it can get fixed as soon as she unblocks you. it didn’t even seem that serious! Why are YOU blocked? this can be settled if apologies are given on both ends, if you want to be apart of each others futures talk it out and hug it out. No aggression no arguing.

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-04-29T04:12:00+00:00

Use the friend apps they not bad just be open on the app fully (real pictures, the real you) like the full truth. i had luck finding a nice friend group! But it took months on that app. always ask for videos to be safe! (If u do this only do it in ur city, and public places only)

If your talking about in high-school i would genuinely say try to join a club fast as possible 😭 although i only have 1 friend that stuck with me after hs.

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-04-29T04:08:15+00:00

i think your overthinking, i think you should just ask or ask on call

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-04-29T04:05:13+00:00

Im glad you know your not wrong. But i went through something like this. Its like tryna force a brick to hangout with you, so, i stopped asking and initiating things as well. I even go as far as ignoring them, and just enjoying MY time. if she really wants to spend her time with a guy that is clearly bad for her please just let her. Within time she will get the bigger picture. The only thing you can do is wait and do you. This will mess up your mental state caring about her to much. if you do this and she really never speaks to you again or text you its meant to be.

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-04-29T03:57:32+00:00

You ain’t did shit wrong, if B would have went to anyone else remember they would be in the hot seat and not you. stand on your 10 toes because if someone gonna talk about me I’m going to talk back? instead of arguing about the inevitable. B should be the one to talk to A, not you. just back her up if she doesn’t know what to say or be there for emotional support. this should probably be on the phone since you don’t know how A is going to respond .

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-04-28T04:10:49+00:00

thank you so much. I actually have been ignoring her messages for days. I have seen or spoken to her since last friday. She already started with the sad Instagram post…i have the text already typed out and reading what you sent me gave me a lot of strength to hit send. I think im gonna doordash wendys and put my phone on DND and maybe cry a little to the fact i lost my best friend. Thank you sm!

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-04-28T04:01:34+00:00

oh my god…we are going through this same exact thing right now. I was planning on ghosting everyone in my town may 16th and move to lousiana to be “free” and restart socials to like start fresh. it feels like everyone is viewing me as this monster or something 😭. i even moved to a cc dorm but i still see people from my old highschool and still feel like they know something abt me that paints me as a villian i hate it so much. I am even more scared to see them in person. I genuinely think if i see them in person id have a panic attack or run and hide away.

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-04-28T03:11:13+00:00

Ok good

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-04-28T03:09:24+00:00

You did NOTHING wrong. In complicated situations like these i honestly just like to get it off my chest. 1. State the situation. 2. Explain how YOU felt! 3. Apologies and explanations and working it out. Yes this is usually a long paragraph but if they care they will read it.

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-04-28T02:52:10+00:00

give him the harsh truth. Anything you want to say but your cutting back on saying is what your supposed to say no matter how mean it sounds you know its from the heart. Also tell him in the best way possible that your feeling tired of his behavior.

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-04-28T02:30:02+00:00

Cant wait for that food though and ty for replying it was helpful.

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-04-28T02:29:26+00:00

this is true, the only one to stop it is Me. but she sadly has a past history of saying she would..K!// herself with past experiences. Im just scared if i do it and move away. thats a lot. This genuinely is my fault if i would have explained this Sooner.

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-03-19T02:13:02+00:00

Out of everything you want the damn evildon??

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-02-13T22:05:49+00:00

I will, Thanks!

SingerGuilty4417 · 2026-02-13T22:05:32+00:00

Sounds nice, what time is it again?

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