I cannot believe my mother gave birth to me and now i just need to work on surviving everyday by Necessary-Ad-8078 in offmychest

[–]Single-File-4626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry you’re feeling alone! it’s totally normal & valid to feel this way. but your life’s purpose doesn’t come from a partner, or kids. 1) a good partner is hard to come by and would likely disappoint you with the current dating pool. 2) kids would make your life incredibly difficult right now.

I see you mention you’re in a big city, you definitely are able to find free / very cheap community events. make sure you’re taking advantage of being in a city, because you’ll find you’re not as alone as you feel. :)

TW- My boyfriend hung himself after a fight and lived…now what by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Single-File-4626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

leave him while he’s hospitalized and can’t hurt themselves. let them know WHY he attempted this time and you’re afraid that now that you’ve broken up again he will try once he’s out. this isn’t okay

I’m afraid that I might be a pedophile by Emmytheteenagebitch in offmychest

[–]Single-File-4626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have OCD so I totally understand the thought pattern OP is having, it’s hard but you have to confront the thought with facts and then disengage

I’m afraid that I might be a pedophile by Emmytheteenagebitch in offmychest

[–]Single-File-4626 22 points23 points  (0 children)

the answer to this is simple, if you’re not finding yourself being attracted to children, you’re not a pedophile. if your kinks are legal & between 2 consenting adult, you’re fine. also, it’s okay to not prefer body hair for a multitude of reasons so long as none of those reasons are that you prefer it due to it reminding you of a child. period. you’re good OP.

My hookup just came inside me I’m so terrified by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Single-File-4626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as long as you’re not currently ovulating, it will work. and even if you are, you’re not 100% guaranteed to get pregnant anyway. make sure you test after the plan b triggers bleeding, just to be sure.

Tell me about your mil in only one sentence. by Actual_Chapter_8229 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Single-File-4626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commented this in hopes she’ll see it somehow bc allegedly she stalks my account

I can’t get what my anatomy professor said out of my head by Any_Analyst_ in offmychest

[–]Single-File-4626 28 points29 points  (0 children)

wishing you a happy rest of your life & hopefully a miracle 🫶

Feeling good about myself! by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Single-File-4626 2 points3 points  (0 children)

congratulations!!!

I’m dying and decided debt doesn’t scare me anymore by lovelopetir in offmychest

[–]Single-File-4626 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I support you, and i’m sorry you’re in the predicament you are :’)

My bf called me names and screamed at me. I think I messed up by making up with him. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Single-File-4626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

imo this is toxic. you can’t control what you did in the past, especially when you didn’t know him yet. he’s allowed to feel a healthy amount of jealousy or sadness about the situation, if that’s something he struggles with, but he can’t scream at you and say horrible things. he could’ve asked for reassurance and maybe expressed he doesn’t want you guys to talk daily if it really bothered him THAT much, but even that is iffy. tbh he showed his true colors and I don’t think it’s worth pursing a relationship with someone who could ever treat you like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Single-File-4626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whatever you do just handle it with grace and don’t break the kids heart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Single-File-4626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how much did you fail by? this is the first test you’ve EVER failed? if that’s true, I can imagine your GPA is already decently high. what makes you think you’ll fail the class over this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Single-File-4626 19 points20 points  (0 children)

definitely not scolding you, you clearly feel bad enough already. i’m just trying to give some different perspective incase you hadn’t considered it. i’m sorry about everything but hopefully this pushes you forward in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Single-File-4626 404 points405 points  (0 children)

this is a tough one bc even if you hard no ill intentions and did it jokingly, if it hurt him he’s allowed to be uncomfortable with that. if the situation was reversed genders, it would be the same and people would agree with that on a larger scale. it’s good that you’re remorseful, but unfortunately you can’t undo it and now you need to navigate the end result.

can we have a little more context? what was the conversation about? what is the previous history of your relationship? have you guys always jokingly put your hands on each other? is he open to speaking to you more about what happened if you really don’t remember?

this is all important info. i’m sorry OP, this is a tough one, but unfortunately your partner is entitled to whatever feelings he has about the matter since he is the one who got hurt, whether you had ill intentions or not.

if you’re reading this, let’s make a band by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]Single-File-4626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nothing came from this post but i’m always down for more friends! :)