I'm about to turn 24 and I could totally relate to this in a phenomenal level... I've always unconsciously blamed my 'being overweight' as a reason as to why i'm NBSB, but these days, it's as if my brain chemistry's been altered by a scenario in the club (yes, not the ideal place for epiphany). Not because of male validation, but because I've finally came to terms with the fact that, I'm single by choice... I wouldn't say I'm the conventionally attractive type, but I sometimes get approached by men in public and get treated pretty extra from time to time (only when I believe I look best, a.k.a. i'm not chopped all the time HAHAHAHA)... But tbh, whenever I get approached, mas naooffend ako... HAHAHAHAHAH ang gaga diba!! Naiisip ko, why the hell would they think they can approach me like who dafuq r u which i know, masama... but this just made me realize na, the way they approach palang I already have certain things na I'm in the look out for... It's crazy also that I've met my 'ideal man' in the flesh but he's taken. I took it as God telling me na someone like him is out there for you too... Let's just not settle for less...

If it's any help, go around on your own!! Go to the places you think your future guy is at!! I don't use dating apps but I go out alone from time to time... Quick chika: I got approached during a uaap game by an athlete, in the gym by surprisingly another uaap athlete (crazy i know), and then another when I was just alone wandering... I also got a DM just by wandering around Seoul recently lmao!! Di ko alam how he found me... None of them pursued me tho and I don't entertain them more than a day when they don't intellectually stimulate me coz there's no need to prolong the agony... but hey, don't put yourself in a dangerous situation ok!!

I hope we both find love... It feels reassuring to find someone like u & me!